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<![CDATA[人生＂三度＂－高度：境界；宽度：胸怀；厚度：人生价值。]]>
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<title>老调重弹(原创)</title>
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<![CDATA[<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span class="Title"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-fareast-font-family: ’Times New Roman’"><span style="mso-list: Ignore"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><span style="mso-list: Ignore"><font color="#000000"><span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span class="Title"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-fareast-font-family: ’Times New Roman’"><span style="mso-list: Ignore"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">
<p style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="center"><font color="#000000"><span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span>--家庭 军队 学校</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><font color="#000000">许多企业家做企业的理想目标是：把企业建设成一个家庭，一支军队，一所学校。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><font color="#000000">纵观古今，横看中外，大凡做得成功的企业，无不是在这三方面做得十分优秀者。而不成功者或尚未成功者等，本人认为，也皆因此三方面做得不到位所致。为何？且容我下面一一阐述分析：<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 57.75pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: -36pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-layout-grid-align: none; tab-stops: list 57.75pt"><font color="#000000"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">1、<span style="FONT: 7pt ’Times New Roman’">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">一个家庭；关键词：沟通、面子、团队。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p>
<p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 21.75pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><font color="#000000">众所周知，家人之间交流通常是<span lang="EN-US">&ldquo;</span>知无不言，言无不尽<span lang="EN-US">&rdquo;</span>，不虚套，<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><font color="#000000">不客套的。本人认为，家庭，是世界上最团结，目标最统一的<span lang="EN-US">Teamwork</span>。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 21.75pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><font color="#000000">日常生活中，我们也经常能在员工慷慨激昂的演讲稿里找到这个<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><font color="#000000">词<span lang="EN-US">&mdash;</span>&ldquo;大家庭&rdquo;。看来&ldquo;把企业做成一个大家庭&rdquo;已深入人心，故不再赘述其含义。简而言之，描述一个企业如一个家庭，也即说，企业里的员工之间是如<span lang="EN-US">&ldquo;</span>家人<span lang="EN-US">&rdquo;</span>般的沟通。谈到沟通，就涉及到一个关键词：面子。我们想想，家人之间讲不讲究<span lang="EN-US">&ldquo;</span>面子<span lang="EN-US">&rdquo;</span>？也讲，但是偶而为之。那么，想想我们平常在企业里，讲不讲究<span lang="EN-US">&ldquo;</span>面子<span lang="EN-US">&rdquo;</span>？可能答案有以下几种：<span lang="EN-US">A</span>、不讲； <span lang="EN-US">B</span>、也讲，但是偶尔为之；<span lang="EN-US">C</span>、经常讲。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><font color="#000000">分析<span lang="EN-US">A</span>答案的企业：国人是世界上最爱面子的群体了，试想一个完全不讲面子的企业该是什么样的氛围？第一感觉就是&ldquo;硬&rdquo;，不够人性化，可能冲突不断，不够稳定。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><font color="#000000">分析<span lang="EN-US">B</span>答案的企业：既然是偶尔讲讲面子，也就是说绝大多数还是&ldquo;知无不言&rdquo;的，沟通顺畅，效率高。具有此种沟通如家庭般的氛围，则企业整体较为和谐。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><font color="#000000">分析<span lang="EN-US">C</span>答案的企业：经常讲面子，就是有话不能直说，得绕着弯子，甚至反话正说。明明某人管理不善，搞&ldquo;专制统治&rdquo;，屡遭下属投诉，但碍于面子，在会上还得讲其&ldquo;管理严格&rdquo;。于是，这种频于讲面子的沟通环境，即形成了企业浮躁、虚荣、效率低下的局面；员工之间因隔着面子，也是相互猜忌，失去了信任基础，导致内部矛盾重重，何谈<span lang="EN-US">Teamwork?<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><font color="#000000">可见，要把企业建设成一个大家庭，就不要刻意讲究面子，要抛开面子，让彼此的心与心实现对接。如此，可建设和谐团队；如此，和谐企业指日可待。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 57.75pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: -36pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-layout-grid-align: none; tab-stops: list 57.75pt"><font color="#000000"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">2、<span style="FONT: 7pt ’Times New Roman’">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">一支军队；关键词：法治、文治。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21.75pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><font color="#000000">在美国曼哈顿的一次宴会上，现代管理之父彼得&middot;德鲁克以及有<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><font color="#000000"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">&ldquo;世界第一<span lang="EN-US">CEO</span>&rdquo;之称的杰克&middot;韦尔奇被问及同一个问题：在培养领导者方面<span lang="EN-US">,</span>谁做得最好？出人意料的是，他们对此的回答既不是哈佛商学院这样的著名学府，也不是通用电气、<span lang="EN-US">IBM</span>等跨国公司，而是&ldquo;军队&rdquo;。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">而美国商务统计年鉴中的一组数字也似乎印证了这一观点：&ldquo;第二次世界大战以后，在世界<span lang="EN-US">500</span>强企业中，西点军校培养出来的董事长有<span lang="EN-US">1000</span>多名，副董事长有<span lang="EN-US">2000</span>多名，总经理、董事一级的有<span lang="EN-US">5000</span>多名。美国任何一所商学院都没有培养出这么多优秀的经营管理人才。&rdquo;<span lang="EN-US">&hellip;&hellip;</span>于是，&ldquo;向军队学习管理&rdquo;之风曾横扫大洋两岸。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><font color="#000000">到底向军队学习什么呢？本人归纳为四个字：法制、文治。所谓&ldquo;法治&rdquo;，即有一套完善激励与约束制度体系，且行之有效。所谓&ldquo;文治&rdquo;，即&ldquo;无为而治&rdquo;，制度没有规定的地方，文化起着至关重要的作用。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><font color="#000000">看看我们所在的企业或身边的企业，有几个能实现&ldquo;法制&rdquo;？制度到是不少，仅是纸上谈兵而已。到头来，还是老板在&ldquo;鞠躬尽瘁&rdquo;地指指划划<span lang="EN-US">&mdash;</span>典型的&ldquo;人治&rdquo;。有些企业可能稍好些，已经建立了一套较为实用的制度体系，但因不能长期坚持，变化频繁，也就无法培养一种良好的行为习惯，从而也就无法达到我们期望的&ldquo;无为而治&rdquo;的境界。而军队就可以做到。做为国家机器的军队，从这个国家形成以来，就存在了军队的&ldquo;法治&rdquo;，历经千百年的锤炼，已经深入人心，形成了恒久不衰的军队文化。也就是说，当制度成为一种习惯的时候，就快达到&ldquo;无为而治&rdquo;的境界了。这也正是为什么，当前不用天天背 &ldquo;三大纪律，八项注意&rdquo;，全体军人也照样依之行之的道理所在。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 57.75pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: -36pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-layout-grid-align: none; tab-stops: list 57.75pt"><font color="#000000"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">3、<span style="FONT: 7pt ’Times New Roman’">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">一所学校；关键词：虚怀若谷。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21.75pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><font color="#000000">将企业建成一所学校，就是要建成一个学习型组织。有的企业是<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><font color="#000000">通过提供大量的培训活动来建设学习型组织的。岂不知，这是一种舍本逐末的游戏，结果可想而知。本是什么？虚怀若谷的心态。在疯子的眼里，正常人就是疯子，而自己是正常人。同理，总在摇头晃脑的&ldquo;半瓶&rdquo;水，却在嘲笑稳而不倒&ldquo;满瓶&rdquo;水。试想，企业里若充斥着具有这类心态的人，学习风气将会如何？因此，要建学校，就要树&ldquo;学无止境&rdquo;的校风；要树校风，就要塑造老师&ldquo;虚怀若谷&rdquo;的心态。别以为你是老师，你就高高在上了。你为了向学生传达<span lang="EN-US">1</span>个信息，就要为这个信息准备<span lang="EN-US">10000</span>种问题答案。对于企业而言，同理。做为公司高管，你要为向员工传达<span lang="EN-US">1</span>个信息，而准备<span lang="EN-US">10000</span>种问题的答案。如此看来，不具备虚怀若谷的心态能行吗？而且，这种心态尤其要由上而下的塑造。此刻，你只所以能坐在高管的位子上，是因为目前，你储备能量要比别人多。能在这个位子上坐多久，取决于你的视野。而人的视野，就如一个同心圆的面积（<span lang="EN-US">S)</span>；人的胸怀，就如同心圆的半径（<span lang="EN-US">R</span>）。公式：<span lang="EN-US">S=</span>&prod;<span lang="EN-US">R2</span>，足以说明他们之间的正比关系。到此，恐怕我们也基本明白了&ldquo;虚怀若谷&rdquo;的含义了吧。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><font color="#000000"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">老调重弹，音在弦上，意境深远。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><font color="#000000"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><o:p><font color="#000000">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><font color="#000000"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>2008</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">年<span lang="EN-US">6</span>月<span lang="EN-US">30</span>日于济南<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p>
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<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 14:29:28 CST </pubDate>
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<title>I Have A Dream</title>
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<![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;前言：此文的手抄本至今仍保存在我的书柜里，至今已有15年了。那还是大学二年级的时候，因为喜欢马丁.路德.金，这位和平英雄，所以就爱上了他的这篇演讲稿，花了一个晚自习的时间，在阅览室里将其抄到了本子上。每到情绪低潮时，就拿它出来，朗诵。还记得，毕业前一年的深秋，在校园的大操场上，那次毕业分享晚会上，我身穿黑毛衫，黑毛裙，为同学们深情的朗诵了该文（部分）。许多同学深受感染，第二天竟找上门来问我从哪里找到的此文，我便把手抄稿借给他们分享。过了几天，同宿舍的同学激动地告诉我：老徐，你又出名了，照片上了院宣传栏了！听后，我赶紧跑到宣传栏一瞧，果然没错。上面正贴着我那晚的侧面照，手持话筒，嘴微张，正在朗诵的样子。下面一行小字：Helenxu&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;有个梦想。</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 是的，我是一个爱梦想的人。我曾经有许多梦想，有的已经变成了现实，有的将永远是个梦。一路走来，我始终活在梦与现实中，虚虚实实。回味一下，也颇有味儿道。</p>
<p>　<span lang="EN-US">by Martin Luther King, Jr</span></p>
<span lang="EN-US">
<p><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3">Delivered on the steps at the Lincoln Memorial in <st1:place w:st="on"><st1:city w:st="on">Washington</st1:city> <st1:state w:st="on">D.C.</st1:state></st1:place> on August 28, 1963. Source: Martin Luther King, Jr: The Peaceful Warrior, Pocket Books, NY 1968 </font></span></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">F</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">ive score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of captivity. But one hundred years later, we must face the tragic fact that the Negro is still not free. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">O</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">ne hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languishing in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">S</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">o we have come here today to dramatize an appalling condition. In a sense we have come to our nation&rsquo;s capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">T</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">his note was a promise that all men would be guaranteed the inalienable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. It is obvious today that <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">America</st1:place></st1:country-region> has defaulted on this promissory note insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">America</st1:place></st1:country-region> has given the Negro people a bad check which has come back marked &quot;insufficient funds.&quot; But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">S</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">o we have come to cash this check -- a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice. We have also come to this hallowed spot to remind <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">America</st1:place></st1:country-region> of the fierce urgency of now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to open the doors of opportunity to all of God&rsquo;s children. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quicksands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">I</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">t would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment and to underestimate the determination of the Negro. This sweltering summer of the Negro&rsquo;s legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality. Nineteen sixty-three is not an end, but a beginning. Those who hope that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual. There will be neither rest nor tranquility in <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">America</st1:place></st1:country-region> until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">T</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">he whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges. But there is something that I must say to my people who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice. In the process of gaining our rightful place we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">W</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">e must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. we must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">T</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">he marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny and their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">W</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">e cannot walk alone. And as we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall march ahead. We cannot turn back. There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, &quot;When will you be satisfied?&quot; we can never be satisfied as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities. We cannot be satisfied as long as the Negro&rsquo;s basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as a Negro in <st1:state w:st="on">Mississippi</st1:state> cannot vote and a Negro in <st1:state w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">New York</st1:place></st1:state> believes he has nothing for which to vote. No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until justice rolls down like waters and righteousness like a mighty stream. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">I</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"> am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations. Some of you have come fresh from narrow cells. Some of you have come from areas where your quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">G</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">o back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed. Let us not wallow in the valley of despair. I say to you today, my friends, that in spite of the difficulties and frustrations of the moment, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">I</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"> have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: &quot;We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal.&quot; I have a dream that one day on the red hills of <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Georgia</st1:place></st1:country-region> the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slaveowners will be able to sit down together at a table of brotherhood. I have a dream that one day even the state of <st1:state w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Mississippi</st1:place></st1:state>, a desert state, sweltering with the heat of injustice and oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice. I have a dream that my four children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. I have a dream today. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">I</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"> have a dream that one day the state of Alabama, whose governor&rsquo;s lips are presently dripping with the words of interposition and nullification, will be transformed into a situation where little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls and walk together as sisters and brothers. I have a dream today. I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight, and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together. This is our hope. This is the faith with which I return to the South. With this faith we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">T</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">his will be the day when all of God&rsquo;s children will be able to sing with a new meaning, &quot;My country, &rsquo;tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the pilgrim&rsquo;s pride, from every mountainside, let freedom ring.&quot; And if <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">America</st1:place></st1:country-region> is to be a great nation, this must become true. So let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of <st1:state w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">New Hampshire</st1:place></st1:state>. Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of <st1:state w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">New York</st1:place></st1:state>. Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania! Let freedom ring from the snowcapped Rockies of Colorado! Let freedom ring from the curvaceous peaks of <st1:state w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">California</st1:place></st1:state>! But not only that; let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia! Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee! Let freedom ring from every hill and every molehill of <st1:state w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Mississippi</st1:place></st1:state>. From every mountainside, let freedom ring. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt">W</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">hen we let freedom ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God&rsquo;s children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual, &quot;Free at last! free at last! thank God Almighty, we are free at last!&quot; </span></font></p>
<p>&nbsp;后语：我小时候，最大的梦想就是要当一名英姿飒爽解放军军官，由于视力问题考大学时与军校无缘。于是就梦想着等毕业分配到军队院校当老师，结果因为没有抓住机会，而与军人再次失之交臂。后来就梦想着当一名大老板，腰缠万贯，如今也没实现。......但并不抱怨什么，因为感觉有了梦想的过程是充实的，幸福的。</p>
<p>分享此文，没有什么宏伟的意想。很简单，就是想表达以下观点：</p>
<p>人永远都不能没有梦想，不管梦想能否实现，她都会给我们带来希望，让我们的生活变得五彩缤纷。这个梦想破灭了，那就再做另一个梦想，继续前行。</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; ----Helenxu&nbsp; June,23,2008</p>
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<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2008 10:02:04 CST </pubDate>
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<title>取英文名（2008.6.23)</title>
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<![CDATA[<p>　　给朋友介绍了个培训课程，在填表的时候需要填写英文名字，且必填。朋友讲没英文名字，那就现取一个吧。我启发式地问：你喜欢什么？他说：龙，正好我属龙。我一想，好，那就叫&ldquo;Loong&quot;（中国龙）吧，加上你的姓＂zhuang&quot;，那正好就是&ldquo;Zhuangloong&quot;--谐音：装聋．．．．．．</p>
<p>　　朋友一听，一个劲地点头，好，好，好！我今后就用这个英文名！多有中国特色！</p>
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<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2008 09:34:17 CST </pubDate>
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<![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 本周日上午的围棋课上，老师在演示板上摆出了一个阵形，问小朋友：这是不是&ldquo;打劫&rdquo;？</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 小朋友们有的答：是，有的答：不是，还有的不吭声，估计是不知道。冰冰属最后者--没吭声。</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 由于回答得较乱，老师先让回答&ldquo;是&rdquo;的举手，忽拉拉有几位小朋友举起了手。然后，老师又让回答&ldquo;不是&rdquo;的举手，忽拉拉又有几位小朋友举起了手。冰冰以及三四位小朋友没举手。这时老师就说：没举手的是什么想法？那就站起来吧！</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 就在这一刹那间，冰冰高高举起了双手，大声喊道：老师，我都选！</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; ......</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 笑声一片。</p>]]>
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<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 16:34:13 CST </pubDate>
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<![CDATA[<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312"><span class="Title">
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">那日<span lang="EN-US">,</span>与朋友老杜共进午餐。其间，老杜眉飞色舞地向我介绍了她近期的学习感受。还十分热情地向我推荐一本好书《人本教练模式》。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">以下是我二人对话：<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">我：好啊，你借给我看看吧！<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">老杜：行，等我先看完吧。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">我：那，那得多长时间啊，干脆你送我这本好了。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">老杜：我还没看完呢。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">我：你再去买一本嘛！<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">老杜：你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&hellip;&hellip;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">,</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">哈哈哈</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&hellip;&hellip;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">看着老杜笑得如此投入<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我十分纳闷<span lang="EN-US">,</span>不禁问其缘故。老杜收敛笑容，对我讲：你的这一举动，让我想起了一句话<span lang="EN-US">--</span>&ldquo;只要不要脸，这个世界都是你的！&rdquo;<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&hellip;&hellip;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312"></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">老实讲，乍一听这句话<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我浑身起了一层鸡皮疙瘩，脑子里蹦出的第一词便是&ldquo;无耻&rdquo;。同时，心里自然有那么一丝儿不悦，只不过由于&ldquo;修炼&rdquo;到位，没在&ldquo;脸&rdquo;上现出来而已。
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">这让我想起了中国那句 &ldquo;人要脸，树要皮&rdquo;的俗话。若是连&ldquo;脸&rdquo;都不要了，那还算是&ldquo;人&rdquo;吗？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&hellip;&hellip;所幸，我和老杜已熟得不能再熟。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">如果碰上不熟悉的人，十有八九得跟她&ldquo;干&rdquo;一场。</span></h4>
后来，我就边吃边琢磨这句话。再后来，就开始傻笑。</span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">因为，从上述对话，以及这句话的下半句&ldquo;这个世界都是你的&rdquo;，我&ldquo;咀嚼&rdquo;出了一些有意义的东西：<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 68pt; TEXT-INDENT: -36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 68.0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">1、</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">不要脸，并非不要人格、尊严；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 68pt; TEXT-INDENT: -36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 68.0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">2、</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">此&ldquo;脸&rdquo;系指虚荣心（面子）、消极心态等一切束</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">缚</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">你</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">实现目标</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">的障碍；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 33pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">3</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">、&ldquo;不要&rdquo;表示&ldquo;放弃&rdquo;、&ldquo;放下&rdquo;、&ldquo;舍掉&rdquo;，表示采取积极的&ldquo;行动&rdquo;；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 33pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">4</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">、不要脸，需要战胜自我，否定自我的非凡的勇气；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 33pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">5</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">、&ldquo;这个世界都会是你的&rdquo;的前提是&ldquo;不要脸&rdquo;，说明要真正做到&ldquo;不要脸&rdquo;是不可能的，只能无限地接近；这句话的因果关系就如&ldquo;只要给我一根足够长的杆，我能撬动整个地球&rdquo;一样；</span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">6</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">、&ldquo;没有想不到的，只有做不到的&rdquo;。</span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">概括一下，这句话是要告诉我们：挖掘出内心真正想要的，不要被＂框框＂给框住，大胆地冲破一切束缚，去追逐灿烂的理想。</span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">据说，这句话值<span lang="EN-US">1</span>亿元人民币。</span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">这几天，每每想起它，我就会不自觉地傻笑那么一两下。而且，<span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">自打知道这句话的价值后，傻笑的频率更高了</span></span>。</span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">仿佛，有&ldquo;彻悟&rdquo;后的欣欣然，也带着点&ldquo;沾沾自喜&rdquo;的味道。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></h4>
<h4 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>2008</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312">年<span lang="EN-US">6</span>月<span lang="EN-US">10</span>日于济南</span></h4>
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<subject>心灵成长</subject>
<author>helenxch</author>
<category>心灵成长</category>
<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2008 17:22:46 CST </pubDate>
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<title>日本鬼子与端午节（2008.6.8)</title>
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<![CDATA[<h2>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 今天是端午节。早饭时，冰冰边吃边给我们讲述了据她说是刚从老师那儿学来的《端午节的来历》。现将其复述如下:</h2>
<h2>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 从前，有个诗人，我忘记他叫什么名了，很伟大。后来，他被日本鬼子抓走了，抓到了日本。那个诗人很伤心，于是就跳到一条江里，那江的名儿我也记不清了，他死了。后来，人们为了不让江里的鱼把他的尸体吃掉，就向江里扔粽子。以后，每年人们都往江里扔粽子。于是就产生了端午节......</h2>
<h2>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 唉,&quot;日本鬼子&quot;和&quot;端午节&quot;竟也扯上了!</h2>]]>
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<subject>冰冰成长日记</subject>
<author>helenxch</author>
<category>冰冰成长日记</category>
<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2008 18:00:53 CST </pubDate>
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<title>是打官司，还是打关系</title>
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<![CDATA[<h3>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 公元2008年5月26日，高新区法院来电话通知领《判决书》。下午2时21分取回。</h3>
<h3>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 这标志着：老公与他原单位的劳动争议案在市劳动仲裁委胜诉后，在高新区法院审理了长达15个月后，终于有了结果：我们败诉。</h3>
<h3>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 看着《判决书》上一行行不负责任的文字，以及最后面的落款时间：2008年2月28日,头感觉有些眩晕。</h3>
<h3>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 司法腐败。腐败得出乎我的意料。</h3>
<h3>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 怎么办？真让人有些看破红尘的感觉。想想主审法官那似笑非笑的嘴脸，直想吐。</h3>
<h3>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 有人曾经对我说：你还是认了吧，毕竟胳膊扭不过大腿。然而，我还是坚持&ldquo;打&rdquo;了下来。</h3>
<h3>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 想想是责任感的支撑。是对家庭的责任，对那些处在社会的最底层没能力抗争而任人宰割的老百姓的责任。</h3>
<h3>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;因此，既要看清现实，又要积极争取。既要打官司，也要打关系。</h3>
<h3>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 接下来要做的工作：一、上诉，二、动用关系，到市、省乃至更高级纪检部门反映。</h3>
<h3>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 之所以这样做，是因为，我依然相信：这个世界的主流是美好的。<img alt="" src="/common/js/fckeditor/editor/images/smiley/msn/regular_smile.gif" /></h3>
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<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>
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<subject>杂谈</subject>
<author>helenxch</author>
<category>杂谈</category>
<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 17:50:59 CST </pubDate>
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<title>生死不离</title>
<link>http://www.bokee.net/blogmodule/weblogcomment_viewEntry/1794575.html</link>
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<![CDATA[<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">--</span><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">王平久</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">生死不离，你的梦落在哪里</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　想着生活继续</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　天空失去美丽，你却等待明天站起</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　无论你在哪里，我都要找到你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　血脉能创造奇迹</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　你的呼喊就刻在我的血液里</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　生死不离，我数秒等你消息</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　相信生命不息</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　我看不到你，你却牵挂在我心里</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　无论你在哪里，我都要找到你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　血脉能创造奇迹</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　搭起双手筑成你回家的路基</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　生死不离，全世界都被沉寂</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　痛苦也不哭泣</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　爱是你的传奇，彩虹在风雨后升起</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　无论你在哪里，我都要找到你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　血脉能创造奇迹</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<h2 style="LINE-HEIGHT: 13.4pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">　　你一丝希望是我全部的动力</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></h2>]]>
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<subject>选摘</subject>
<author>helenxch</author>
<category>选摘</category>
<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 10:35:04 CST </pubDate>
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<title>今天，我还活着(原）</title>
<link>http://www.bokee.net/blogmodule/weblogcomment_viewEntry/1785016.html</link>
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<![CDATA[<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><span class="Title">
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">今年到底是怎么了<span lang="EN-US">?<o:p></o:p></span></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">南方雪灾、拉萨抢砸、胶济铁路撞车、四川大地震。两起天灾，两起人祸。一条条鲜活的生命瞬间离我们而去！我无法看清那些死伤现场的图片，因为，泪水早已迷住了双眼。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">在这浩瀚的宇宙中<span lang="EN-US">,</span>生命显得那么的渺小和脆弱！<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">昨天已去，就如做了一场噩梦。真不知明天会发生什么。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">&hellip;&hellip;<o:p></o:p></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">早上醒来，我在心里默默对自己说：啊，今天，我还活着。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">宝贵的今天，需要我用怎样的行动去珍惜啊。我不能再去无休止地为逝去的生命哭泣，不能在回忆中流连忘返，不能苟延残喘、碌碌无为。我要让今天的每一分钟都注满生命的能量，爱的甘泉。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">早晨，当望着冰冰蹦蹦跳跳地抱着她心爱的&ldquo;小猪&rdquo;储钱罐消失在幼儿园大门里的时候，已分明地感到：爱正在延续。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">上午，上市培训课上。政府领导的讲话已不再觉得&ldquo;官话连篇&rdquo;，而是句句切中要害，意味深长。<span lang="EN-US">4</span>个小时下来，伴随着前后左右&ldquo;课友&rdquo;们的阵阵鼾声，猛然间发现：培训资料的空白处已布满了密密麻麻的注解说明。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">下午，快速就餐后返回办公室，已是<span lang="EN-US">2:15</span>。打开邮箱，回复处理邮件；登录博客，回复留言；查看未接电话，回电；审核&ldquo;抗震救灾&rdquo;倡议书；审核处理文件；修改<span lang="EN-US">PPT</span>；接听、拨打电话；召开短会。<span lang="EN-US">&hellip;&hellip;<o:p></o:p></span></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">晚上<span lang="EN-US">, </span>一进家门<span lang="EN-US">,</span>便急不可耐地打开电脑，登录博客，看到&ldquo;老六&rdquo;的留言，打开了他留下的那个链接<span lang="EN-US">&hellip;&hellip;</span>眼泪又一次止不住地流下。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">&hellip;&hellip;<o:p></o:p></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">我实在不知该如何告慰那些悲惨的&ldquo;亡灵们&rdquo;，也不知怎样更好地帮助这些处在&ldquo;水深火热&rdquo;中的同胞们。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">&hellip;&hellip;<o:p></o:p></span></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">死者长已矣。那么，活着的就得&ldquo;擦干泪，不要怕，因为我们还有梦。&rdquo;</span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">等到明天一觉&ldquo;醒&rdquo;来，我依然会对自己说：</span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">啊，今天，我还活着！<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></h5>
<h5 class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>2008</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">年<span lang="EN-US">5</span>月<span lang="EN-US">14</span>日于济南晚</span></h5>
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<subject>心灵成长</subject>
<author>helenxch</author>
<category>心灵成长</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 20:43:44 CST </pubDate>
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<title>雪的面目</title>
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<![CDATA[<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font face="宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 在赤道，一位小学老师努力地给儿童说明</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&quot;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font face="宋体">雪</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&quot;</span><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">的形态，但不管他怎么说，儿童也不能明白。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　老师说：雪是纯白的东西。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　儿童就猜测：雪是像盐一样。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　老师说：雪是冷的东西。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　儿童就猜测：雪是像冰淇淋一样。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　老师说：雪是粗粗的东西。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　儿童就猜测：雪是像砂子一样。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font face="宋体">　　老师始终不能告诉孩子雪是什么，最后，他考试的时候，出了</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&quot;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font face="宋体">雪</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&quot;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font face="宋体">的题目，结果有几个儿童这样回答：</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&quot;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font face="宋体">雪是淡黄色，味道又冷又咸的砂。</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&quot;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　这个故事使我们知道，有一些事物的真相，用言语是无法表白的，对于没有看过雪的人，我们很难让他知道雪，像雪这种可看的、有形象的事物都无法明明白白过，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　那么，对于无声无色、没有形象、不可捕捉的心念，如何能够清楚地表达呢？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　我们要知道雪，只有自己到有雪的国度。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　我们要听黄莺的歌声，就要坐到有黄莺的树下。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　我们要闻夜来香的清气，只有夜晚走到有花的庭院去。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　那些写着最热烈优美情书的，不一定是最爱我们的人；那些陪我们喝酒吃肉搭肩拍胸的，不一定是真朋友；那些嘴里说着仁义道德的，不一定有人格的馨香；那些签了约的字据呀，也有抛弃与撕毁的时候！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　这个世界最美好的事物都是语言文字难以形容与表现的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　就像我们站在雪中，什么也不必说，就知道雪了。　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font face="宋体">　　雪，冷面清明，纯净优美，在某一个层次上像极了我们的心。</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #2e2f34; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>]]>
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<subject>选摘</subject>
<author>helenxch</author>
<category>选摘</category>
<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 19:26:56 CST </pubDate>
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