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<![CDATA[<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">对一个普通人而言，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">1000</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">万似乎是绰绰有余了。&ldquo;但是能得到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">1000</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">万的人，都不是因此就知足的人。&rdquo;杂志发行人葛拉士曼如是说。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h3><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">秘诀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">12<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">如何战胜供需法则</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></h3>
<h3><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></h3>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一位重要球队联盟的负责人告诉我这个故事。有一年，球队表现得不如人意，数以百计的观众退回了季票，球队负责人了解，如果这件事开始受公众瞩目，退票会变成滚雪球。因此他们守口如瓶，从容地设计了一套令人叫绝的办法把空位填满。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">他们花</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">10</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">块钱在地方报纸上登了一则不起眼的广告：&ldquo;离城外出，四张季票待售。&rdquo;结果反应热烈。一批票售罄后，他们再如法炮制。最后神不知鬼不觉地，卖出了所有被退回的季票。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">纽约的一些朋友告诉我，同样的方法也适用于经营餐馆。新餐馆开张的前两个月，他们每晚告诉半数电话订位的顾客：座位已满，请稍候再拨。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">他们的作法显然与球队联盟如出一辙：罔顾供给状况&mdash;&mdash;制造需求的假象。这个故事的重点不在人的无知，而是处在资本主义的经济体制下，每件出售的东西都是商品，无论是股票、不动产、季票还是餐馆座位。容易到手的东西大家不屑一顾。如果得之不易又需求正殷，就会成为抢手货。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我在第一课里描绘的市场状况并未改变，决定一件物品价值如何的是需求的假象，而非物品实际的价值。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h3><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">秘诀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">13<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">勇于任事者得宠</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></h3>
<h3><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></h3>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">会议快结束了，老板指派了工作。你正要离去，回到楼下那间斗室里完成预定要做的事。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">你脑中同时涌现两件事：你试着思索刚才分派给你的那些冗长、欠考虑而难如登天的工作怎么可能完成</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">另一方面，你的老板正等着听你提出锦囊妙计。所以放聪明些，你首先要满足老板的需求，不是你的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">暂时别考虑该如何执行，既然你责无旁贷地必须亲自处理&mdash;&mdash;这是老板付你薪水的原因&mdash;&mdash;为什么不让他听他想听的话：&ldquo;我会负责一切。&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">贝比罗斯受雇打全垒打，当然他的确击出了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">714</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">支。不过最值得回味的一次，是他在击出全垒打前，用球棒指着球场中央预告&ldquo;将击出全垒打。&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">预告你将击出全垒打吧！采取行动之前先做预告，成效甚佳。你让老板觉得安心，你是一个主动出击的人，在市场上，还有什么可以为你带来更佳的声誉？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<title>秘诀1   感激是人类情感中最弱的一环</title>
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<![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt">你一定听过类似的话，口语一点就像&ldquo;你看我最近被你害惨了&rdquo;<span lang="EN-US">;比较典雅的则是&ldquo;不知感恩的孩子比毒蛇的利齿更伤人&rdquo;。不管怎么说法，我觉得有必要在此重申一遍：不要期望受你恩惠的人对你的感激之情会持续到他说完&ldquo;我永远感激你&rdquo;之后。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt">我们能有今日的成就，是因为曾得到许多人的帮助。但是如果用举手的方式调查，恐怕会有<span lang="EN-US">99.9%的人会认为自己是完全靠自己站起来的。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">爱、恨可以长久，但是人类的天性却极不愿意承受他人恩情的重担。因此道义上的感激之情常常无法持久。所以无论你对孩子、配偶、部属、老板或朋友做了什么，要记住这句话把事情当作是为自己做的，这样会比较快乐。同时，做过之后就忘掉，因为获益的人早已忘记这回事了。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<h3><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">秘诀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">2<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">有一就有二</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></h3>
<h3><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></h3>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">许多新构想总是从各个不相关的领域同时出现，我相信对此一定有个合理的解释。在一段时期，社会上会有一些大家都想追求的目标，譬如发财或减肥等。各式各样的人在各种不同的地方，建立并运用相同的知识和共通的经验，告诉你达到这些目标的途径。你一定会发现这些途径都很像。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">科学上的发现似乎都是如此。创造性的活动又何尝例外？我们思想的雷同之处远比我们愿意承认的多。如果你想出一个好点子，表示你很可能会有另外一个。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我有过上述的经验&mdash;&mdash;尤其是当我以为别人偷窃了我的构想时。你一定也是如此，可以想出不只一个好点子。&ldquo;一次&rdquo;是永远不够的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<h3><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">秘诀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">3<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">广结名流的方法</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></h3>
<h3><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></h3>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我们能一睹名流的庐山真面目可能很兴奋，但是他们和我们见面却多半很无聊。会见名人时我们该谈些什么，以便让他们印象深刻，而我们也可以得到一些真正有价值的心得，不致于白跑一趟？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果谈他们的成名事迹，你会发现成千上万次同样的回答，已经使他变得目光呆滞。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">诀窍是不要像一个狂热的崇拜者，而是要把他们当作&ldquo;人&rdquo;来看待。找出&ldquo;他们&rdquo;有兴趣的话题&mdash;&mdash;我可以和你打赌绝不会是有关他们职业方面的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">(</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">哪个医生会喜欢在鸡尾酒会上谈他诊所的事</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">)</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我的妻子卡罗尔&middot;安是个中高手。有一次我们在一个宴会上遇到足球名人辛普森，没多久他俩就发现彼此都是艺术灯迷。没错，这位强壮的足球先生收集台灯，而且还喜欢聊他的收藏。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">向辛普森表示你想和他交换薄纱台灯的价码情报，不是比背诵一些老掉牙的足球轶事有趣得多吗？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">几年前卡斯特罗接掌政权后，我随第一批企业家访问团前往古巴。我有个机会和卡斯特罗单独会谈。当时我说的是英语，而卡斯特罗说西班牙语。我想他可能不懂英语，有一个人充当翻译。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我打算直捣黄龙。我问他：&ldquo;司令官，我注意到你的身体很好，你是怎么做到的？&rdquo;我从图书馆借了一本他的传记，知道他在进入政界之前，曾经是一名投手。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">他目光一动，不等人翻译就回答：&ldquo;打保龄球。&rdquo;说的是西班牙语。然后他继续叙述如何在革命官的地下室辟设保龄球场，又从胸前口袋取出一本小记事簿，里面记录他与将军们比赛的分数和胜负情形。最后一栏可看出谁欠谁什么。果然不出所料，大家都欠卡斯特罗东西&mdash;&mdash;他击败了每一个人。我说：&ldquo;真凑巧，我正好连续</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">3</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">年赢得明尼苏达大学保龄球冠军。&rdquo;&ldquo;哦，真的吗？&rdquo;卡斯特罗脱口而出&mdash;&mdash;说的竟是英语。一切不懂英语的伪装，都因为发现保龄球同好而兴奋得全消失了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">他立刻警觉到自己的行为，于是谈话很快就给束了。多年以来，我和许多人共进晚餐时，都谨记这个故事的启示。如果当时我们只是进行几回合资本主义与共产主义的标准会谈，我对卡斯特罗就不会有较多的了解了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">要找到你需要的名人资料，我的办公室里有一本书很管用，书名是《美国名人录》。似乎每一个名人部被网罗在里面了。不久前有人请我在一个节目中为包可华作人物特写专访。由于整个节目是绕着他来进行的，我们不仅安排包可华在广大观众前面说话，并且邀请他晚餐，我则坐在他旁边。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这时候，我要和包可华谈什么？要口答这个问题，你得去查《美国名人录》。它指出包可华曾在海军服役过</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">(</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">海军我一无所知</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">);</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">不过他是南加利福尼亚大学毕业的，我和那个地方还有点关系。所以，与其笨拙地想找出共同的话题，或是坐在桌前盯着台布两小时，不如一开始就用这个话题打开包可华的话匣子。如果有些人的资料在这本名人录中找不到，各地亲切的图书馆管理员也会给你正确的指引。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h3><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">秘诀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">4<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">自尊自重</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></h3>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">下一次，如果有人说你是个自私自利、自我中心的&ldquo;王八蛋&rdquo;，不要忘了向他道谢。因为这么做，等于是强烈地认可了你的身心健康。&ldquo;自尊自信&rdquo;正是时下风行的名词，而且也该是好好提倡的时候了。自尊越强的人，不仅越能独处，也越容易与他人相处，而且越可能有所成就。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">谦虚是一种被过度高估的情感。我们小时候，别人就常常告诉我们：说谎和夸口是最坏的事。我倒是蛮赞成罗杰斯的话：&ldquo;我做得到的事，说出来就不算夸口。&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">为我们曾做过的事情或自认做得到的事情感到骄傲，有何不对？依我的看法，谦虚是我们小时候父母和老师为了便于控制我们，而勉强我们学习的&ldquo;美德&rdquo;，但却是一种很造作的美德。其实年轻人总是充满信心，认为自己有办法做到一切。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">俄亥俄州立大学心理学博士葛林渥教授认为&ldquo;自我中心的偏见&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">(egocentricity bias)</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">是一种身心健康的表征。&ldquo;自我中心的偏见&rdquo;就是用一个比较好的眼光重新估量自己在事件中的地位，并深信自己对事件的控制能力远比实际的表现强。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我对他的说法深表赞同。葛林渥博士把这种心理现象称为&ldquo;自我中心的偏见&rdquo;，我宁可称它为&ldquo;乐观&rdquo;。我认为乐观就是一个人能持续有所表现的特质。你看过一个悲观的人有良好的表现吗？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">(</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">附带说一句，没有人认为自己是悲观的。悲观的人总是称自己为识时务的人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">)<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">乐观掺杂了自我想像的成分，这是一种信念，认为自己的能力一定能够克服从常理来看不能克服的障碍。这正是完成艰巨的任务所不可或缺的信念。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果我们不认为自己能完成似乎无法完成的工作，怎么可能把事情做得好呢？运动场和市场上表现杰出的人总是以英雄自诩，只差没有跑到屋顶上去仰天长啸罢了。不过他们表现的就是一副英雄的模样。事实上，棒球球探把那种模样称为&ldquo;赢家的脸孔&rdquo;，也就是胜利者脸上流露出的自信表情。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">不要让这种自我中心的偏见、乐观的态度自你身上消退。这种态度远比谦虚会让你更具有生产力。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h3><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">秘诀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">5<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">根本没有&ldquo;记性不好&rdquo;这回事</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></h3>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">六年级的小约翰带回家的成绩单上都是&ldquo;丙&rdquo;和&ldquo;丁&rdquo;。父亲询问他理由，约翰回答：&ldquo;我什么都记不住。&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">老爸说：&ldquo;这样好了，在你的成绩进步之前，不能再去看任何棒球比赛。就从现在开始，今晚那场球赛你就甭去看了。&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&ldquo;等一等，&rdquo;孩子说：&ldquo;你不能这样做。道奇棒球队到镇上来了。法廉瑞拉是投手。他去年的纪录是赢</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">21</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">场输</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">11</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">场，每场平均失分</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">3.14</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">分，领导球队打完全部比赛，并获得胜利。全年共担任</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">269</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">局投手，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">3</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">振</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">242</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">人，名列第二。&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">谁说他记性不好？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我们记得住任何事情，只要我们对那些事有兴趣。我认识一个人，他记不住国务卿的名字，却记得伯林写的每一首歌的歌词。爱因斯坦也记不住自巳的电话号码。他说：&ldquo;反正查得到，何必记它？&rdquo;爱因斯坦真正记得住的事情，是那些他若不写下来就没人查得到的事。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">没有人指望你去记得顾客小孩的名字，但你还是可以在需要的时候自然顺口地说出来&mdash;&mdash;只要你善用&ldquo;麦凯</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&rdquo;的表格。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">你要在与顾客分手后&ldquo;马上&rdquo;把它们写下来。在表格上一填就没错了。下一次你去办公室找他前的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">5</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">分钟，只要瞥一眼表格，你就是个天才了&mdash;&mdash;至少看起来像是个天才。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这种繁琐的小事不能太依赖你的记忆&mdash;&mdash;再好的记性也不如烂纸头。学爱因斯坦那一套，他并不笨，只要写下来就可以查到。但是你必须确定自己真的写下来了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h3><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">秘诀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">6<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">人不能忘本</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></h3>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我们都见过小康之家发达后的样子，他们喜欢炫耀。暴发户常过着招摇的生活，显示了他们的不安全感。他们借着这种生活方式向自己及世人证明，他们已经变成大人物了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我们的经济体系也多少鼓励这种风气。否则我们怎么向本来能走路上班的人推销保时捷</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">(Porsche)</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">和</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">BMW</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">汽车？又怎么向不爱游泳的人推销游泳池？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">然而赚进大把钞票真的会让人昏了头：人们会忘记当初帮助他的人，并且利用刚赚来的财富尽可能摆脱他原来的出身。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">没有一个人的事业在从无到有的过程中，是完全靠自己打出来的。很久以前，曾经有人在我们身上看到某种优点，因而愿意助我们一臂之力。然而现在他们对我们的看法还是一样吗？我们应该扪心自问。如果答案是否定的，如果成功使我们改变了，那么我们就该恢复从前一无所有的时候！无论你有多少财富，都可能消失得像来时一样快。你最好能保有当初吸引别人信任我们的那些特质，并且与良师益友保持接触。如果我们和他们的距离愈来愈远，也就等于放弃了使我们拥有今日成就的因素。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h3><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">秘诀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">7<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">预测未来可保心智敏锐</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></h3>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">试着自己做个游戏：无论是股市行情、选举、还是运动竞赛，只要你有兴趣，就来预测一下它们的绪果。游戏有三项规则：第一、你一定要把预测的结果用白纸黑字记下</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">(</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">否则你一定会作弊</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">)</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">。第二、你得写下你为什么如此推测。第三、当你预测错了，要强迫自己分析错的原因，为什么你的论点站不住脚。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果你的&ldquo;自我&rdquo;偶尔需要点刺激，这个小小的测验会使你终生受用不尽。这项测验迫使你重新检查并调整自己的推理能力，犯错也不用付罚金。你会发现练习次数愈多，准确性就愈高。如果你发觉自己极具天分，就该让你的天分兑换成现金。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h3><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">秘诀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">8<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">日光浴的秘密</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></h3>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">衣履光鲜通常能赢得财富，但是有时候农着褴褛赢得更多。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">有一位住明尼亚波利斯的商人到夏威夷威基基海滩欢度圣诞节。他每天在沙滩上做日光浴，让全身肌肤晒成古铜色&mdash;&mdash;自颈部以下。从日出到日落，他始终用一顶帽子遮阳。他的朋友自然感到好奇，但又不便问明原因，心想也许他有什么疾病，睑部必须躲开阳光。最后，一位熟在开口问起，这位商人笑道：&ldquo;谁，我？有皮肤病？笑话。下个星期我要出席州议会的听证会，因为我正在申请一笔巨额补助。我可不敢让人逮到脸上有日光浴的痕迹。&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<![CDATA[<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">所以不要一看我要你们填表就不耐烦，一点也不难，事实上你平常可能已经在进行里面的部分，&ldquo;麦凯</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&rdquo;不过是帮你把收集到的信息系统化，并且让它们变得更有用也好用。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">虽然大部分信息都需靠你跟客户的第一手接触和观察，但你可不是孤军作战，你还可以有其他的帮手。譬如：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这还是张短的清单。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">在我们公司，秘书的工作还包括翻阅地方新闻以及各大报。任何有关我们前</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">20</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">位最大客户的消息，公司里任何跟这个客户有关的人都必读。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这些信息的价值不只在帮助业务员。我们知道任何行业的业务员流动量都很大，这些资料可防止他们离职时也带走客户，还可让接班的人及时进入情况，不用从头做起。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">因为都写在纸上了，&ldquo;麦凯</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&rdquo;还可以协助业务员和主管同时讨论这个客户。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">有两件事需要特别提醒：世界瞬息万变，所以</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">个题目需随时修正，而且因为</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">个问题通常都牵涉点客户的隐私，所以储存时要考虑到安全与隐密，每份资料只有固定的份数，不能让影印本满天飞。我创业的前</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">10</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">年，每个星期日晚上都花时间苦读公司前</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">10</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">大客户的资料，直到我倒背如流。虽然今天我已不再这样辛苦，但每年我都要和公司高级主管开会审查这些信息，并且特别注意最后一页。这页对一般客户事务的特别分析，就是公司拟定未来计划的基础。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">你现在懂了吧！你会问：&ldquo;到底有没有效呢？&rdquo;你先细读以下的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">题，我一边告诉你到底有没有效。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">公司名称地址<span lang="EN-US">3住址________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">4</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">电话<span lang="EN-US">(公) ________________ (宅) ________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">5</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">出生年月日<span lang="EN-US">________________出生地________________</span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal">籍贯<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">6</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">身高<span lang="EN-US">________________体重________________</span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal">身体五官特征<span lang="EN-US">________________ (如秃头、关节炎、严重背部问题等) ________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
    </tbody>
</table>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">教育背景</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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    <tbody>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">7</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">高中名称与就读期间<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal">大专名称<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal">毕业日期<span lang="EN-US">________________学位________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">8</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">大学时代得奖纪录<span lang="EN-US">________________研究所________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">9</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">大学时所属兄弟或姐妹会<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal">擅长运动是<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">10</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">课外活动、社团<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">11</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">如果客户未上过大学，他是否在意学位<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal">其他教育背景<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">12</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">兵役军种<span lang="EN-US">________________退役时军阶________________</span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal">对兵役的态度<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
    </tbody>
</table>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">家庭</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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    <tbody>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">13</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">婚姻状况<span lang="EN-US">________________配偶姓名________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">14</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">配偶教育程度<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">15</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">配偶兴趣<span lang="EN-US">/活动/社团________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">16</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">婚纪念日<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">17</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">女姓名、年龄<span lang="EN-US">________________是否有抚养权________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">18</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">子女教育<span lang="EN-US">_______________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">19</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">子女喜好<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
    </tbody>
</table>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">业务背景资料</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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    <tbody>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 21.3pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="28">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">20</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 404.8pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="540">
            <p class="MsoNormal">客户的前一个工作<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal">公司名称<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal">公司地址<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal">受雇时间<span lang="EN-US">________________受雇职衔________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 21.3pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="28">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">21</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 404.8pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="540">
            <p class="MsoNormal">在目前公司的前一个职衔<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal">职衔<span lang="EN-US">________________日期________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 21.3pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="28">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">22</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 404.8pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="540">
            <p class="MsoNormal">在办公室有何&ldquo;地位&rdquo;象征<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 21.3pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="28">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">23</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 404.8pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="540">
            <p class="MsoNormal">参与的职业及贸易团体<span lang="EN-US">________________所任职位________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 21.3pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="28">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">24</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 404.8pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="540">
            <p class="MsoNormal">是否聘顾问<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 21.3pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="28">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">25</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 404.8pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="540">
            <p class="MsoNormal">本客户与本公司其他人员有何业务上的关系<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 21.3pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="28">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">26</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 404.8pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="540">
            <p class="MsoNormal">关系是否良好<span lang="EN-US">________________原因________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 21.3pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="28">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">27</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 404.8pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="540">
            <p class="MsoNormal">本公司其他人员对本客户的了解<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 21.3pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="28">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">28</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 404.8pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="540">
            <p class="MsoNormal">何种联系<span lang="EN-US">________________关系性质________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 21.3pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="28">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">29</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 404.8pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="540">
            <p class="MsoNormal">客户对自己公司的态度<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 21.3pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="28">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">30</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 404.8pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="540">
            <p class="MsoNormal">本客户长期事业目标为何<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 21.3pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="28">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">31</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 404.8pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="540">
            <p class="MsoNormal">短期事业目标为何<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 21.3pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="28">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">32</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 404.8pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="540">
            <p class="MsoNormal">客户目前最关切的是公司前途或个人前途<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
        <tr>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 21.3pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="28">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">33</span></p>
            </td>
            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 404.8pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="540">
            <p class="MsoNormal">客户多思考现在或将来<span lang="EN-US">________________为什么________________</span></p>
            </td>
        </tr>
    </tbody>
</table>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">特殊兴趣</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">34</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">客户所属私人俱乐部<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">35</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">参与之政治活动<span lang="EN-US">________________政党________________</span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal">对客户的重要性为何<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">36</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">是否热衷社区活动<span lang="EN-US">________________如何参与________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">37</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">宗教信仰<span lang="EN-US">________________是否热衷________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">38</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">对本客户特别机密且不宜谈论之事件<span lang="EN-US">(如离婚等) ________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">39</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">客户对什么主题特别有意见<span lang="EN-US">(除生意之外) ________________</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">生活方式</p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">40</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">病历<span lang="EN-US">(目前健康状况) ________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">41</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">饮酒习惯<span lang="EN-US">________________所嗜酒类与份量________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">42</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">如果不嗜酒，是否反对别人喝酒<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">43</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">是否吸烟<span lang="EN-US">________________若否，是否反对别人吸烟________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">44</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">最偏好的午餐地点<span lang="EN-US">________________晚餐地点________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">45</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">最偏好的菜式<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">46</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">是否反对别人请客<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">47</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">嗜好与娱乐<span lang="EN-US">________________喜读什么书________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">48</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">喜欢的度假方式<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">49</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">喜欢观赏的运动<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">50</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">车子厂牌<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">51</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">喜欢的话题<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">52</span></p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal">喜欢引起什么人注意<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">53</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">喜欢被这些人如何重视<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">54</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">你会用什么来形容本客户<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">55</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">客户自认最得意的成就<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">56</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">你认为客户长期个人目标为何<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">57</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">你认为客户眼前个人目标为何<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">客户和你</p>
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            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">58</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">与客户做生意时，你最担心的道德与伦理问题为何<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">59</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">客户觉得对你、你的公司或你的竞争负有责任<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal">如果有的话，是什么<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">60</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">客户是否需改变自己的习惯，采取不利自己的行动才能配合你的推销与建议<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">61</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">客户是否特别在意别人的意见<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">62</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">或非常以自我为中心<span lang="EN-US">________________是否道德感很强________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">63</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">在客户眼中最关键的问题有哪些<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">64</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">客户的管理阶层以何为重<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p>
            <p class="MsoNormal">客户与他的主管是否有冲突<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">65</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">你能否协助化解客户与主管的问题如何化解<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
            </td>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">66</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 410.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="547">
            <p class="MsoNormal">你的竞争者对以上的问题有没有比你更好的答案<span lang="EN-US">________________</span></p>
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            <td style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; WIDTH: 16.05pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm" valign="top" width="21">
            <p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-ALIGN: right" align="right"><strong>版权所有<span lang="EN-US">1988年<o:p></o:p></span></strong></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-ALIGN: right" align="right"><strong>麦凯信封公司<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></strong></p>
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<h3><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">5</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">课</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">&ldquo;麦凯</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">&rdquo;续篇&mdash;&mdash;战场点滴</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></h3>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我们现在回到麦凯</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">5</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">题&mdash;&mdash;&ldquo;生日、出生地及籍贯&rdquo;。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">你自忖道：&ldquo;哟！原来麦凯建议送顾客生日贺卡，这有什么大不了！&rdquo;且慢，生日卡片还不算什么，好戏在后头呢！回想一下，我们不是从小就会察言观色、从不在大人心情不好时开口要东西吗？但是一旦察觉他们心情颇佳时，就会乘机来个狮子大开口。时机就是一切，这句话绝对有道理。在本公司的电脑里，有所有顾客的生日资料，在他们生日前夕，自然会收到公司的贺卡。除此之外，我们还会在顾客生日时，派专人前往道贺，并请吃中饭。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">因此，你若看到我们的业务员能在顾客欢度生日时，打破买卖双方的障碍，不必觉得太惊讶。至于客户的家乡，从报章上就叮得到供应不绝的资料，你不必亲自去搜集。如果值得，不妨偶尔翻翻当地的报章杂志，或干脆委托专门机构替你搜集相关资料。若能具备一些关于你客户家乡的常识，包管能使你可以和他滔滔不绝地聊上一个礼拜还觉得不过瘾。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">7</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">―</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">12</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">题&mdash;&mdash;&ldquo;教育背景&rdquo;。有一天，我拜访一位客户，发现原来我们</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">15</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">年前是高中同窗。我们都曾上过传奇的梅老师的英文课，谈往事谈得很高兴；而隔天我才发觉，他买进的信封更令人兴奋&mdash;&mdash;这位仁兄一下子向我买了超过</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">1.5</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">亿个信封，直到现在，我都觉得费解。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">13</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">―</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">19</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">题&mdash;&mdash;&ldquo;家庭&rdquo;。有次在无意间，我听到一位买主的秘书正在电话中安排送他</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">12</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">岁大的女儿参加体操比赛。我抓住机会，立刻问了这件事；没多久，我跑去看这位小女孩比赛双杠。一个月后，我增加了不少对体操的知识，于是向我的客户提起了这件事，结果当天就收到第一批订单。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">23</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">题&mdash;&mdash;&ldquo;业务背景资料&rdquo;。&ldquo;在办公室里身份的象征&rdquo;是个值得探讨的好题目。经过学习，我了解到：一个业务员在等待买主挂电话与你晤谈前，最重要的任务就是乘机浏览他办公室墙上所挂的各类照片、奖状等。因而当我有天到纽约一家名列财星</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">500</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">大的公司拜访时，我注意到墙上挂着一幅该公司总裁和客户的合照&mdash;&mdash;那是为奖励他的第一篇有关失业问题的专题论文，而获得总裁亲颁奖状时的合影留念。一星期后，我寄给他一本有关失业问题的专书，此后，订单就没断过。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">40</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">―</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">57</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">题&mdash;&mdash;&ldquo;生活方式&rdquo;。为客户准备他喜爱的比赛或表演节目的门票，通常都有助你打破彼此间的隔阂，特别是如果你能亲自陪同前往。这招不只对男性顾客管用，对女性也成效斐然。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我曾经连续三年未间断地拜访芝加哥一名女性采购经纪人，但她从来不给我任何机会报价。后来我发现她是个摔跤迷！于是我立刻投其所好，也把自己变成摔跤迷。第二天，我跑到她办公室，告诉她我有办法弄到摔跤大王乔治比赛的票，而且还是紧靠场边的位子。我邀她同行，或者我让出来，她好另邀他人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">看得出来，这对她来说，真是内心一大挣扎。接受呢？聪明如她，当然明白我送票的动机！不接受呢？又怎舍得放弃如此好的座位。最后摔跤的魅力战胜理智，她终于接受我的票，但坚持票钱由她出。在她接受我们，给我们订单前，有六年的时间我都孤军奋斗，却毫无斩获。六年后是什么扭转了颓势呢？那就是&ldquo;麦凯</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&rdquo;；现在我们订单愈接愈多，六年的等待是有代价的！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">报偿：铁的事实就在这信封中&mdash;不是麦凯出产的信封而是装你薪水的信封。麦凯公司业务员的年平均所得是同行的两倍多，什么原因？那就是&ldquo;麦凯</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&rdquo;。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h3><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">6 </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">课</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">别太有个性</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></h3>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一旦在工作中掺入你主观的性格，他人就会开始针对你的个性而非对你的工作下定论。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h3><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">7 </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">课</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">知已知彼</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></h3>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">绝大部分的销售指南都会告诉你&mdash;&mdash;推销时，最重要的是推销你自己。本书则不然。我认为自我推销有时反倒适得其反；因为：老兄！别否认，你我绝大多数时候并不出色。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">无论本身是业务员、协调者，是主管或是企业家，我们最大的挑战就是，让对方看清我们的提案所能给他们带来的好处。因此，了解对方个性是当务之急。尽量让他们当主角、出风头，而我们本身则应甘为配角。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">多半生意人并不适合采高姿态。当然艾科卡是例外。你我都不是艾科卡，葛米兹兄弟也不是。美国通用汽车公司能使全美各州的议员都帮通用的提案游说，是因为通用在整个过程中，都是以企业形象出现，他们从不打个人形象牌&mdash;&mdash;有的只是一个驰名国际、规模庞大、形象整体化的大公司。公司里有哪些人，没人真的知道，但这样反而较有胜算达到愿望。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">在过去&ldquo;美好的岁月&rdquo;里，业务员都会与相同种族的客户配合。譬如，你会派公司里爱尔兰裔的业务员去拜访爱尔兰来的顾客，派犹太裔人员去应付犹太客人等。现在情势改观了，由于少数民族地位愈来愈稳固，精明的销售经理发觉这类顾客也想走出自己的圈圈，与主流结合、想和不同民族的人来往，因此会派与顾客不同的业务员去接洽，不过情况都因人而异。这也是为什么本公司在还没有真正和对方做生意前，要花那么多人力、物力来分析、调查顾客的背景。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果你对你的客户没啥把握，不妨先按兵不动，雇用这方的专才协助你。不过有时候你会发觉你的顾客更能接受当地的专家。从大都会如纽约、旧金山来的人通常都自视甚高，无人能比。这也难怪，人多半都会恃才傲物，所以他们又何必听一些&ldquo;老土&rdquo;的话？另一方面，从小城市来的人也多抱着&ldquo;远来的和尚会念经&rdquo;的心理，至于这些远来的和尚，实力到底如何，我们也不得而知。碰到这种情形，你得随时准备这些外表得体的专家会让你头痛无比。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">总有一种适合你的推销方式，无论是雇用公关，或退居幕后操纵，或创造需求。不论何种方式，关键在于了解、掌握你的顾客，而不只是一味的埋头苦干，或向对方提出看似吸引人的交易。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h3><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">8 </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">课</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">因应&ldquo;难缠&rdquo;之道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></h3>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">既然你已明白错会出在哪儿，也明白一些必备的补救方法，那么现在该是你学习如何运用信息的时候了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我不认为业务员的定义就是光指能争取到订单的人，因为任何人只要会撒够多的谎</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">(</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">例如：价钱或送货时间</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">)</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，就可轻易收到订单。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">优秀的业务员，不但要能争取到别人手上的客户订单，而且还能继续接到订单。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这都要从访问客户开始。我拜访客户，从来没有碰过钉子。原因就是我在首次拜访客户前，都会慎重其事。早在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">40</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">年前，著名的麦葛荷公司在一个推销广告的广告中，塑造出一个标准的难缠客户的形象，可说明业务员的典型难题。&ldquo;难缠&rdquo;的客户有着一双锐眼，坐在办公桌前，脾气暴躁。对着业务员说：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&mdash;&mdash;我不知道你是谁？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&mdash;&mdash;我不知道你是哪家公司的？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&mdash;&mdash;我不知道贵公司的性质、立场？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&mdash;&mdash;我不知道贵公司有哪些客户？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&mdash;&mdash;我不知道贵公司有哪些产品？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&mdash;&mdash;我不知道贵公司的信誉？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&mdash;&mdash;现在告诉我，你打算卖什么给我？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果你销售的是大公司的系列产品，如</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">IBM</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">电脑，那么你的客户业已从你公司的公关部门、广告网和市场调查中，对你要销售的产品有所认识。而</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">IBM</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">本身卓越的信誉，无疑是拜访客户时最有力的无形业务员。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">但是如果你卖的不是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">IBM</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">电脑，你就得另出绝招，最好的方法就是请一位你自己的客户来推荐，而他是你要争取的新客户所认识的人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我也和绝大多数业务员一样，把大半辈子时间花在建立自己的社交圈和顾客网上，以便可以和全市每间办公室搭上线。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">要达到这个境界有两招：一招是采取&ldquo;零售&rdquo;方式；另一招则采取&ldquo;批发&rdquo;方式。&ldquo;零售&rdquo;是指透过社交活动及社团参与等接触，一点一滴建立自己的社交圈；&ldquo;批发&rdquo;则是指透过传播媒体，例如报章杂志，使那些不认识你的人，也能从你所发表的言论、文章及你所参与的社交活动中认识你，进而接受你。不论是&ldquo;零售&rdquo;或是&ldquo;批发&rdquo;，都能使你在拜访客户时，打破彼此的僵局。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果没有个人渠道的话，我也会另想法子。如果你公司的股票有上市，不妨看看你们的年度报告。因为这类的年度报告，多半是一种销售的工具，对象是公司的股东及股票经纪人。我认为没有理由不让公司的客户也能成为公司股东。当我把可能范围内，几乎所有上市股票都买上一股时，我的经纪人快气疯了。但我总有办法让他明白，花个买股票的小钱，每股都能变成一位新客户，到时一股会变成一百股。我们把这些年度报告放在办公厅的阅览室，好让公司的业务员随手可得。结果大伙儿闻风而至的&ldquo;盛况&rdquo;，简直可与理发馆里大家争看《花花公子》杂志的情形媲美。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果你的公司不作兴&ldquo;年度报告&rdquo;这种把戏，或许可以把它用在你客户的公司。从公开或私人渠道，尽量搜集有关对方公司的资料。公开的资料来源有你的经纪人，或市立图书馆有关&ldquo;生意栏&rdquo;的消息；至于私人渠道，则可从你的银行界朋友、律师、会计师那儿打听到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">(</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">你或许会说，他们才不会透露消息给我。没错，如果你问的是他们自己的客户，他们当然会三缄其口，但是如果是别家的客户，那就另当别论了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">)</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">你甚至可以从其他不具竞争性的行业得到有关消息。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">另外还有别的方法。我认识一位业务员，他就有办法在每星期五下午</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">5</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">点左右，把车停在他顾客车子对面的停车位，然后一路跟随客户，直到他们一起进入酒吧或沙龙。在这种五光十色的欢乐气氛下，经常都可以套出他想知道关于客户或竞争者的消息。他说他已经有办法在酒吧玩各种游戏都输得心服口服。他更打趣道：&ldquo;我现在正在苦练飞镖呢！&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">准备好了你所有的资料后，你就可以写信给这位&ldquo;难缠的客户&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">(Tough Prospect)</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">了。告诉他你要介绍的产品有多好，并且告诉他一切有关他公司的资料，好让他晓得你是有备而来，然后要求约个时间见面。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这样一来，你有了好的开始。但大功还没告成呢！你现在应该打电话给这位难缠的客户，定个时间见面。电话是总机小姐接的，你不要直接找这位客户听电话，相反地，你告诉她：&ldquo;麻烦你帮我接你们老板办公室，对了，你们老板的秘书叫什么名字，我一下想不起来。&rdquo;等她告诉你秘书名字之后，再请她帮你接老板办公室。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&ldquo;喂！是你吗，安琪拉？我是哈维&middot;麦凯&mdash;&mdash;麦凯信封公司总裁</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">(</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">没错！就是要吓她一跳：&ldquo;这家伙是谁？他怎么晓得我叫安琪拉？我见过他吗？&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">)</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">前两个星期我曾写过信给贵公司负责人。我人现在在明尼亚波利斯，但我仍希望飞去见他一面，不用多，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">300</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">秒就够了。为了和他见面，我要从老远飞过去，怎么样，只要</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">300</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">秒，如果超过时间，我愿意以贵公司名义，捐</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">500</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">美金给你们老板最常捐钱的慈善机构。&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果你的准备工作都做完了，事前也已经打听好了这位&ldquo;难缠的客户&rdquo;，并且和他合作的厂商拉上一点关系后，你就会信心大增，并且使他印象深刻。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">由于事先计划周详，这招通常十拿九稳。但是，只有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">5</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">分钟会面，够吗？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">答案是：绰绰有余！因为我从没真的用完</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">5</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">分钟。我只是简单自我介绍，然后告诉他：&ldquo;你可能听说过了，我们正在争取贵公司的业务。敝公司很重视这次与贵公司合作的机会，如果有幸能接下这档生意，我愿以麦凯信封公司负责人身份向你保证，我们公司产品的质量和良好的售后服务会合您的意&rdquo;。这么简单几句话就够了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">因此从进去到出来，只需两分半钟。接下来，我立刻寄给他一封事先准备的、当天由明尼亚波利斯发出的谢函，除了感谢他和我见面，并重申我私下给他的保证。如果可能的话，随函附上一张</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">100</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">美金的收据，收款单位正是他一向乐捐的机构。你可以告诉他：&ldquo;我只是想让你知道，我曾答应过安琪拉，如果不在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">5</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">分钟之内离开你的办公室，我得捐</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">500</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">美金给你常乐捐的慈善机构。虽然我在规定的时间内出来，但我一向支持童军活动，这区区百元只是个人一点心意罢了！&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这招屡试不爽吗？那倒也不尽然。但比起其他法子，这招的确有效多了。另外还有一招，那就是如果安琪拉不帮你安排和他见面的话，也要想办法叫这位&ldquo;难缠的客户&rdquo;回你电话，你可以说：&ldquo;嗨！安琪拉，如果他没有时间见我，通个电话的时间总该有吧！我今天下午两点到三点和明天一整个早上，都会在办公室等他电话&hellip;&hellip;&rdquo;等等之类的话。然后告诉你的秘书：&ldquo;如果这位客户在上述时间打来，你应告诉他：&lsquo;是的，先生，我们老板正在等你的电话，我马上帮你转过去。&rsquo;&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这招电话游戏，不光对付&ldquo;难缠的客户&rdquo;管用，就是对其他人也能派上用场。先留给对方你会在办公室的时间，再叫你的秘书在那些时间内守着话筒，一旦对方打过来，她就马上以夸张的口气告诉对方：&ldquo;嗨！你打来了，他正在等你的电话呢？&rdquo;客户会觉得很受用。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">好了，你该做的都做了，你和难缠客户见过面谈过话了，过去两年中，你逢年过节不是寄卡片就是寄礼盒给他，但两年过去了，你还是一张订单也没收到。别沮丧，有耐心地等，你总会等到的。因为你已经把自己安置在最有利的位置上，这位置是&ldquo;第二位&rdquo;，但是很有利的&ldquo;第二位&rdquo;，因为没有人会像你为了争取这客户，而付出如此多的心血。政客都晓得选举时，跑在最前面的第一名，通常要担的风险最大，地位也最不稳固。一旦第一名垮了，第二名则早已准备好把票源都接收过来。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">除此之外，你还有其他的好处。想一想所谓的&ldquo;大数法则&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">(Law of Large Numbers)</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">。所有的保险业采取的就是这套方法。美国现在人口</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">2.4</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">亿人，保险业有办法告诉你在未来一年内，将有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">0.25%</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">的人遭到不测，甚至能告诉你是怎么发生及在哪里发生的，依年龄、性别、种族、信仰而不同，这真是厉害透顶。他们唯一无法告诉你的是&mdash;&ldquo;谁&rdquo;将遭此不测。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">把这个&ldquo;大数法则&rdquo;运用到你的客户名单上。在这张表上，你应该把自己当做每位客户的第二考虑。且不时增加客户的数目。我向你保证，只要你名单上的客户够多，总会有原本位居第一的对手因为各种理由，而失去第一名的宝座，这时位居第二的你就出头了。我没法告诉你是&ldquo;谁&rdquo;会倒下来，但没有关系，是谁并不重要。重要的是由于你有耐心和毅力，你能在不同的人面前，心甘情愿暂居第二，&ldquo;大数法则&rdquo;不但对保险业者管用，对你也大有帮助。你只要能在自己的位子上耐心等待，迟早会从第二名跃居为第一，成为一位名利双收、非常成功的业务员。这招不仅在生意场上管用，在你的人生旅途上也包管用得着，奇怪的是，除了我之外，好像没有人用过这招。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<title>点点滴滴收集信息</title>
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<![CDATA[<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">在麦凯信封公司，你不会相信我们多了解客户&mdash;&mdash;连国税局都不相信。我们的业务员对每个客户都必须填妥</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">个问题。不只是他们喜欢那种信封，而是经由业务员自己持续的观察与访谈，得到有关客户&ldquo;个人&rdquo;的信息，例如他对什么事物有特别的意见？他最得意的成就是什么？他在办公室里代表的身份是什么？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">当你了解客户的特殊兴趣与个性后，你往后跟他们接触与谈话就会特别容易。我有个客户是芝加哥小熊棒球队的球迷，这就让我们一年至少能通六次信，我不必在信中告诉他最近信封的形式，我只要写关于棒球的事，他则告诉我有关信封的意见。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我另外一个客户集邮，不论我到世界任何角落，我都把特别具异国风味的邮票寄给他。我想他一定相当感激，他买我的信封已历时</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">20</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">年，然而这其间，我们只见过一次面。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">了解你的客户表示了解他的需求。也许你的产品真的好，但别的东西也会影响销路，譬如认同感、尊敬、信任、关怀、服务、觉得受重视、友谊、协助等等，都是更重要的东西。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h3><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">4</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">课</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">麦凯</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt">客户档案</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></h3>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">了解你的客户非常必要，我们已经看过不重视客户的可笑后果。如果像葛米兹兄弟那样世故练达的生意人都会犯这样的错，我们更不用说了。只要掌握对客户足够的信息，我们绝对可以在竞争时创下惊人的业绩，同时改进管理技巧，不仅能动员部属，也能赢得谈判。我是不是太夸张了呢？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果你和我一样相信信息的价值，你就不会这么想了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">你可能认为这种掌握与控制信息的做法有点独裁，但别忘了，你的客户在审查你的产品时总是带着怀疑和挑剔的眼光，他们的工作本来就该如此。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">所以业务员的工作就是化解这种不友善，让客户能不带偏见地考虑你的产品。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果推销只是让最低价的人得标，那世界上就不需要业务员，只要电脑就够了。&ldquo;麦凯</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&rdquo;就是教你怎样跟客户化敌为友，反过来帮你达成销售。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">决定谁得标的关键不在投机取巧，而在人。像艾科卡曾说：&ldquo;跟别人处不来的人绝不属于这个行业，因为这是我们谋生的唯一技能。&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这也就是我设计有关客户</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">个问题的理由，没错，这里所谈的就是填表。当然我知道没有人喜欢填表，尤其是业务员，他们都是大而化之的人，不喜欢数学，行事都跟着右脑的创造区域走。我非常了解，所以设计表时也把这层因素考虑进去了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">事实上，搜集这些信息比你想像的要简单，举&ldquo;麦凯</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">66</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&rdquo;的最后一页为例，客户都非常乐意跟你谈他们管理上的目标和手法。身为业务员，你可能就常常忽略掉，因为对他们而言，任何没有签下购买订单的合约都不值钱。我在千千万万的业务员眼中都看过这种漫不经心的表情，但是个问题就会让你得到意想不到的信息，并转输为赢。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>]]>
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<pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2008 20:39:18 CST </pubDate>
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<title>价值感才是决定的关键</title>
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<![CDATA[<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一位演讲者面对满屋的人，台下没人听过或见过此人，他边讲开场白边把手插进裤袋里，掏出一张</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">20</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">元美金：&ldquo;这张</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">20</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">元我愿用</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">1</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">元卖出，谁要买？&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">老实说，你会不会跳起来说你要买？或者你会等几秒钟，看看别人怎么反应，直到别人举手时，才怯生生地举起你的手？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果你迟疑了，那很正常&mdash;&mdash;因为我们一生的教育都告诉我们，只有傻子才会像那个人一样做生意。但如果有别人敢在同样情况下冒险，那我们贪婪的小手就举起来了，我们习惯跟随别人。别人的手举得越快、需求越强烈，我们跟得也越快。换言之，我们对任何物质价值的判定，都不是来自物质的本身，而是根据这种物质被需求的程度而定。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">好吧，你会说这是行销学初级班的课，谁不晓得嘛，这跟现实世界有什么关系？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">关系可大了！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我可以告诉你一个四兄弟的故事，他们腰缠万贯，却根本就不了解这个简单概念，也许几年后这件事也会像某些大企业的吹牛文章一样，列入哈佛商学院企管硕士的个案研究里。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">但我们可不可以从中学到点什么？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">场景：市郊。此地是明尼亚波利斯市</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">(</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">也可能是全美国</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">)</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">最有价值的士地，市郊</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">50</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">英亩的精华住宅区，在原来的旧体育场拆迁到市中心后，身价暴涨。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="1"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">入场：葛米兹兄弟四个，都是加拿大人，以进口伊朗地毯起家，目前经营房地产。他们至今最伟大的成就就是世界最大的西爱德蒙购物中心。这可不是普通的购物中心，不光只面积大，除了商店、服务中心和餐厅之外，还有完整的休闲娱乐中心，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">2</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">英亩半的室内人工湖，儿童乐园和</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt">5000</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">万美元搭建成的观光旅馆。葛米兹兄弟称这个购物中心是&ldquo;世界第八大奇迹&rdquo;，而且千百万个观光客也同意他们的说法。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>]]>
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