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<entry>
<title>爱的多少</title>
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<![CDATA[<p>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 爱情是什么，一个人对一人默默的付出，还是默默的思念，或许是在同一个城市里不能相见，我真的爱上她了吗？我不禁自问，也许吧！有人说，日久生情，感觉这话说的很对，久是多长时间，一年，两年........十年，谁会有这样的&ldquo;耐心&rdquo;，或许是一个月或两个月.........十个月.不是还有，一见钟情吗，也许我现在的状况要比一见钟情要好的多吧。</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 我们认识也快一年了，说真的，感情真的很奇妙，也许我和她真的走上这爱情的道路了，真的好迷惑。莫名其妙，也许爱情就是莫名其妙的吧.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 好久没有见面了，真的好想她，自己的工作，哎，不知道什么是休息日，好想了放下工作，要去见我心爱的她，不知道她现在对我的感情有没有减退，好担心啊 ，是真爱，就可以永恒，没什么好担心的 ，除非............！</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 在我的记忆里，我还没有真正的说，我爱你，我好想大声的说出来，让所有的人都听见：&ldquo;&lsquo;臭丫头&rsquo;，我爱你&rdquo;</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 我现在有点心＂冷＂了，我对她的思念越来越深了，给她打电话从不说＂甜言蜜语＂，也不知道她是否也思念着我，基本上她从来不给我打电话，我的电话打去的也很少，常常是拿在手里可就是没有按下呼叫键。感觉对她好陌生了，不知道她现在的生活，.........我有点迷失自我了吧．何必在乎多少呢，爱一个人，同样不也是一种幸福吗！！！</p>
<p>　　哎！做人难！做男人更难！难！！！</p>
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<title>走近食人族：将吃掉老弱病残者视为义举(图)</title>
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<issued>2007-08-24T10-06-47 CST</issued> 
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<![CDATA[<img style="BORDER-RIGHT: #000 1px solid; BORDER-TOP: #000 1px solid; BORDER-LEFT: #000 1px solid; BORDER-BOTTOM: #000 1px solid" alt="走近食人族：将吃掉老弱病残者视为义举(图)" src="http://www.sinaimg.cn/IT/ul/2007/0821/U1235P2DT20070821164008.jpg" /><br />食人族&nbsp;
<p><font class="f14">&nbsp; <img style="BORDER-RIGHT: #000 1px solid; BORDER-TOP: #000 1px solid; BORDER-LEFT: #000 1px solid; BORDER-BOTTOM: #000 1px solid" alt="走近食人族：将吃掉老弱病残者视为义举(图)" src="http://www.sinaimg.cn/IT/ul/2007/0821/U1235P2DT20070821164041.jpg" /><br />神话与传说中关于吃人的故事有很多<br /></font></p>
<p class="f14">　　文明下的白骨 </p>
<p class="f14">　　关于食人族的一切，最早都来自于一些道听途说。Cannibal和Caribbean，食人族和加勒比人，这两个词同源，是因为哥伦布在听土著人讲加勒比人如何吃掉自己的俘虏时，听差了一个音，把r 听成了n，所以食人族就是Cannibal，而加勒比人是Caribbean。据说加勒比人会将活着的男性俘虏全部吃掉。他们甚至会把一些小男孩养起来，等到他们长胖再吃掉。 </p>
<p class="f14">　　虽然迄今为止很多关于食人族的描述， 其准确性都非常值得怀疑，甚至在相当长一段时间里，土著人和欧洲的白人相互之间都怀疑对方是食人族&mdash;&mdash; 白人认为他们是未经教化的野蛮人，而土著人以为，白人抓他们的兄弟到欧洲去，完全是为了满足欧洲人对人肉的食欲，但无论如何，很多已经得到证实的例子表明，吃人的事件并非偶然，食人族确实存在。考古学的证据更表明，吃人的现象曾经非常普遍。 </p>
<p class="f14">　　世界著名的古史专家摩尔根曾经在他的《古代社会》中论证：从近代世界各地遗留的少数原始部落的生活状况， 就可以了解现代文明人远古祖先的生活状况； 原始部落多有食人习俗， 可知文明人的祖先也曾有食人的习俗。 </p>
<p class="f14">　　1998 年夏天， 美国科罗拉多大学医学院病理学系的分子生物学家马拉教授， 曾经进行过世界上首例检验人吃人现象的科学实验。检验的对象是一块1150 年前的人类粪便化石， 教授希望在其中寻找一种特殊的人类肌红蛋白质。如果粪便中存在这种蛋白， 则证明这个人曾经吃过人肉。后来实验的结果表明， 这块粪便的主人在排泄前的12 到36 个小时内， 曾经吃过人肉。一千多年前， 距离现在还并不算遥远。而提取这块粪便的地点， 是美洲古印第安人居住的石屋。他们可是曾经创造过先进的农业文明的&ldquo; 文明人&rdquo; 啊， 怎么会堕落到吃人呢？ 专家经过考证， 给出的答案是:&ldquo; 饿！&rdquo; 原来这里所处的大峡谷地带曾在一千多年前经历过非常严重的旱灾。古印第安人也许正是因为颗粒无收而异子相食吧。 </p>
<p class="f14">　　这个发现从一定意义上佐证了一些专家关于周口店北京人的猜测。黄叔娉所著的《中国原始社会史话》一书曾记录： &ldquo; 北京人化石有一个令人注意的事实，即头骨发现得很多，而躯干骨和四肢骨却很少，而且大部分头盖骨都有伤痕。这些伤痕是带有皮肉时受打击所致，是用利刃器物、圆石或棍棒打击产生的。很可能，远古的北京人有食人之风。这种食人之风显然是在食物十分匮乏，饥饿作为死神的使者出现时产生的。人吃人，在现代人看来是极为野蛮、可怕的行为，但在原始人的心目中却是十分自然的事，吃掉丧失劳动能力的老弱病残者，解除他们坐以待毙的恐怖，正是合乎道德的义举。&rdquo; 这就像我们今天能够谅解那些遭遇空难或沉船事件后，不得已攫食自己同伴的遇难者一样。 </p>
<p class="f14">　　历史上的食客 </p>
<p class="f14">　　吃人的故事在各处都听过不少，很多神话和传说里都有关于吃人的描写。如希腊神话中的克洛诺斯，他的妻子是女神瑞亚。克洛诺斯有个毛病就是吃孩子。瑞亚生了许多子女，但都是刚一出生就被克洛诺斯吃掉。当瑞亚生下宙斯时，因为担心他再被丈夫吃掉，就用布裹住一块石头谎称这是新生的婴儿。克洛诺斯错吃了石头，这才让宙斯躲过一劫。众神之神都险些被自己的老爸吃掉，可见英雄多难。但有时候英雄也吃人。马王堆汉墓出土的一本古书上就记载，黄帝在打败蚩尤之后，不但将其毛发做成旌旗的装饰，还把蚩尤的皮做成靶子让人们以弓射之，多中者有赏，其余部分的肉则剁成肉酱，与天下人分而食之。 </p>
<p class="f14">　　再如真实的历史中，古时行军打仗因缺粮而吃人肉的记载有很多。安史之乱时，张巡据守睢阳，曾杀死自己的爱妾犒军以激励士气。更有传闻说他手下的兵士食人数达到3万，不管是阵亡的将士或是城内的百姓，总之数量巨大。北宋时登州人范温组织义军抗金，兵败后撤退到首都临安，进城后，居然在首善之地还在吃自己携带的人肉干。他们还把人肉叫做两脚羊，其中老而瘦的男子因为肉老叫做饶把火，年轻的妇女叫不羡羊，小孩叫和骨烂。 </p>
<p class="f14">　　近代历史上，1942年2月，中国十万远征军入缅甸抗日。杜聿明所部由于指挥失误以及敌情不明等原因，被困胡康谷地一个叫布帕布姆的山谷中，粮食吃完，野兽也猎尽了，挖草根吃树皮仍然不足以果腹的情况下，也曾上演过人吃死人，甚至人吃活人的惨剧。至于史书上记载的遭遇灾荒之年， 灾民间异子相食的例子则更加不胜枚举。 </p>
<p class="f14">　　食出有因 </p>
<p class="f14">　　饥饿、宗教上的某种认识、精神异常都会导致人吃人事件的发生。人们过去甚至公开地食用他人或自己的肉以表达仇恨、报复、信念和忠诚。《三国演义》中夏侯那一段&ldquo; 拔矢啖睛&rdquo;， 不就是他自己&ldquo; 皮肤毛发，父精母血&rdquo; 观念的一种强烈表达嘛。王莽在历史上被认作是一个篡位者，大逆不道的人，于是在倒台后其肉就被人们争相抢食， 以示愤恨。董卓鱼肉长安和洛阳两地的百姓多年，罪行比王莽更甚。在他死后，只因为王允派人专门看守，其尸体才没有被两地的百姓愤而分食。 </p>
<p class="f14">　　一般来说， 如果不是因为没有其他食物，也就是非生理上的原因导致吃人的，原因有很多种。有人曾经总结过，大概有20 种，也就是：报酬、报恩、雪恨、震慑对手、证实誓言、谄媚主子、偏嗜人肉、为治病强身、宗教迷信、人祭或者为了显示勇猛等等。 </p>
<p class="f14">　　这么看下来，好像自古民间的百姓对食人保持着一种平常心。但其实不然，相反的，人们从来都把它普遍看做是一种残忍的行为。比如，清末有个故事就讲，扬州附近一处村子里有一个青年，半夜里看到远处河边土地庙前有忽明忽暗的火光，觉得奇怪，就叫上几个年轻力壮的小伙子各执棍棒去察看，发现是一个和尚支着一口锅，正加柴烧煮。众人因为闻到锅里有肉香， 于是好奇地揭开锅盖，不想锅里竟然煮的是两个胎儿！在众人逼问下，和尚招供说自己是在练一种叫做金刚禅的左道邪术，要吃够36 个男胎才能成大道。农民们虽然不知道这两个胎儿是谁家的，但是照样被这种残忍的行为所激怒，于是就群起将这个恶僧打死。再者，历史上因为泄恨和报仇等原因吃人的行为，作为特定历史条件下一种原始的、野蛮的情感宣泄的方式，随着社会的进步，今天也逐渐消失了。 </p>
<p class="f14">2007年08月22日&nbsp;03:56&nbsp; 《新知客》 </p>
<p class="f14"><img style="BORDER-RIGHT: #000 1px solid; BORDER-TOP: #000 1px solid; BORDER-LEFT: #000 1px solid; BORDER-BOTTOM: #000 1px solid" alt="走近食人族：将吃掉老弱病残者视为义举(图)(2)" src="http://www.sinaimg.cn/IT/ul/2007/0821/U1235P2DT20070821164409.jpg" /><br />传说中关于吃人的故事 </p>
<p class="f14">&nbsp; <img style="BORDER-RIGHT: #000 1px solid; BORDER-TOP: #000 1px solid; BORDER-LEFT: #000 1px solid; BORDER-BOTTOM: #000 1px solid" alt="走近食人族：将吃掉老弱病残者视为义举(图)(2)" src="http://www.sinaimg.cn/IT/ul/2007/0821/U1235P2DT20070821164617.jpg" /><br />《沉默的羔羊》剧照。剧中安东尼-霍普金斯扮演了一位食人教授 </p>
<p class="f14">　　食人部落的逻辑 </p>
<p class="f14">　　在为数众多的研究文献中，人们提到食人族吞食人肉的目的除了滋养身体之外，还带有自我转化、显示权力，或者将吃与被吃者的关系仪式化等动机。换句话说，与吃其他食物一样， 食人者往往希望分享食物的功效。 </p>
<p class="f14">　　巴布亚的奥洛卡瓦人说，他们会将自己的敌人当做猎物并食用，是为了&ldquo; 捕捉灵魂&rdquo;，以补偿失去的勇士。新几内亚的花族人吃本族的死人，以保留一种叫做Nu 的东西，他们认为这是一种在自然界中无法再生的重要液体。甚至， 即使对于热衷于嗜食同类的部族来说， 吃人也并非是可以草率决定的事。根据《食物的历史》一书，&ldquo;受难者将被食用的部分，通常要经过认真的挑选，有时候仅限于很小的局部，通常是人的心脏。这个过程都要伴随着隆重的仪式。在阿兹特克人看来，吃下战俘的肉，可以获得死者的威力：作为补充，捕获者还将披上死者的人皮，将死者的双手垂在腰间，作为装饰。&rdquo; 而且，在很多部落看来，人肉是神的食物，食人是人与神交流的形式，是进行象征性统治的一部分。 </p>
<p class="f14">　　从食人者的角度来看，作为食物的人总是具有某种象征性的价值和魔力，食物是有意义的，食人能够让他们获得某种程度上的自我完善。换句话说，吃绝对不是单纯为了活下去，在任何地方饮食都是一种文化的转化。它将个体融入社会，将体弱者变为强健。正如《食物的历史》一书作者阿莫斯图所说：&ldquo; 它能使人们获得认同。正像历史上发生的其他革命一样， 当饮食超越了本身的物质意义，它就变成了一种仪式。从人吃人到顺势疗法， 直到健康食品，人们饮食的目的，是净化人格，增加力量，延长寿命，这些成为人们选择食品的准则。&rdquo; </p>
<p class="f14">　　食人狂大嚼面包圈 </p>
<p class="f14">　　人吃人，这个古老的话题，一种本以为只存在于传说、神话与原始部落中的野蛮行为，其实距离我们并不遥远。46岁的阿明&middot;梅韦斯是同性恋。不过这不足以让他出名。今天人们还能记得他的名字，是因为5年前警察发现他吃了一个人，并在其郊外的家中找到一些冷冻的碎肉和人骨。2002年12月12日，德国《图片报》以&ldquo;食人狂大嚼&lsquo;面包圈&rsquo;为题报道了这起耸人听闻的案件。 </p>
<p class="f14">　　小镇食人狂，这个案子当年在德国炒得很火，不只因为整个事件是在受害者于根&middot;布兰德斯完全同意的情况下发生的。尤其令人大跌眼镜的是，布兰德斯在意识清醒的情况下，甚至与梅韦斯一起煮食了自己的生殖器官！而全部过程之血腥，都通过摄像机记录下来。警察当时在梅韦斯家中搜到了数十盘拷贝，而显然很可能已经有更多的拷贝流散到黑市上。根据犯罪心理学家的解释，&ldquo;食人狂&rdquo;通过观看这些录像中的情节能够获得最大的性满足。如果是这样，那么梅韦斯在被捕后向警察透露的一个数字极有可能是真实的：德国至少有800个食人者。而做出这种猜测的根据有二：一是警察在搜查中竟然发现，还有5个人曾经与梅韦斯联系，等着被吃；二是800这个数字或许和拷贝的实际数量有关&mdash;&mdash;梅韦斯心中有数，他卖给了多少人。而这些录像带的买家，包括那些自愿被吃的人，没准本身就是一些食人爱好者。这样的结论绝对够让舆论哗然。在科技昌明，社会进步的今天，居然在我们身边就生活着嗜血如命的食人狂！ </p>
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<entry>
<title>老婆、情人和红颜谁最累? </title>
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<issued>2007-07-12T19-56-12 CST</issued> 
<created>2007-07-12T19-56-12 CST</created>
<modified>2008-10-12T08-54-22Z</modified>
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<name>liuyang7788</name>
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<dc:subject>说点人生</dc:subject>
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            <p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 和朋友<nobr oncontextmenu="return false;" onmousemove="kwM(1);" id="key1" onmouseover="kwE(event,1, this);" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; COLOR: #009900; BORDER-BOTTOM: #009900 1px dotted; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; TEXT-DECORATION: underline" onclick="return kwC();" onmouseout="kwL(event, this);" target="_blank">讨论</nobr>起这个问题，朋友说：都累。我觉得似乎还没有回答透彻：因为最累的人恐怕是男人自己。</p>
            <p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">老婆，是婚前的红颜，新婚的情人，未来的保姆。因此，老婆是<nobr oncontextmenu="return false;" onmousemove="kwM(3);" id="key3" onmouseover="kwE(event,3, this);" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; COLOR: #009900; BORDER-BOTTOM: #009900 1px dotted; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; TEXT-DECORATION: underline" onclick="return kwC();" onmouseout="kwL(event, this);" target="_blank">男人</nobr>的记忆和依靠，可以给他温暖、饭菜，也可以给他心灵的安慰，但同时，老婆也是男人的出气筒和私有财产，男人把老婆看得如同箱底带有浪漫记忆的陈旧衣服，自己欣赏，但不能放飞。 </p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">&nbsp;</p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">情人，是男人的浪漫对象。只有在男人激情迸发的时候，情<nobr oncontextmenu="return false;" onmousemove="kwM(0);" id="key0" onmouseover="kwE(event,0, this);" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; COLOR: #009900; BORDER-BOTTOM: #009900 1px dotted; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; TEXT-DECORATION: underline" onclick="return kwC();" onmouseout="kwL(event, this);" target="_blank">人才</nobr>被重视，之后，男人依旧欣赏自家箱底的珍藏。所以说最傻的女人是做情人的女人。 </p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">红颜，是男人心灵的短暂慰藉，在男人有与老婆不能言谈的秘密之时，才会到红颜这里倾诉。也可以说，是一种短暂的心灵朋友罢了。 </p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">&nbsp;</p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">老婆、情人和红颜，谁最累？肯定都累。男人在有情人的那一刻，就已经从行动和感情上背叛了自己的老婆。老婆要时刻提防，从时间和心理上已经疲惫。对男人，老婆会因为社会环境等原因原谅他，但内心深处却出现信任危机。这时的男人累吗？像陀螺一样来回奔走于情人和老婆之间，累。情人呢？她曾经在一时付出了真正的情感，对男人的要求恐怕不次于初恋的人，所以，当男人在顾及家庭的时候，她会不舒服。一旦情人成为负担，他会放弃；即使不放弃，也会同时<nobr oncontextmenu="return false;" onmousemove="kwM(4);" id="key4" onmouseover="kwE(event,4, this);" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; COLOR: #009900; BORDER-BOTTOM: #009900 1px dotted; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; TEXT-DECORATION: underline" onclick="return kwC();" onmouseout="kwL(event, this);" target="_blank">寻找</nobr>另外的情人。男人，这样攻于心计，穷于应付，日子就如同热锅上的蚂蚁，难熬。　 </p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">女人，都有&ldquo;从一而终&rdquo;的思想，一旦成了情人，她都会像蛛网一样纠缠到底。试想，把大好时光投于一个把她看得并不重要的男人身上，也许到了最后只有怨恨和疲惫了。累不？　　 </p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">红颜，是心灵朋友，当然不会没感情。但是，男人在心里把红颜至多当做一个暂时情绪的发泄对象和名誉上的<nobr oncontextmenu="return false;" onmousemove="kwM(2);" id="key2" onmouseover="kwE(event,2, this);" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; COLOR: #009900; BORDER-BOTTOM: #009900 1px dotted; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; TEXT-DECORATION: underline" onclick="return kwC();" onmouseout="kwL(event, this);" target="_blank">浪漫</nobr>罢了。红颜，在男人走近你的时候，不要在意，远离你的时候，不要期盼。可是，如果这样，那还叫红颜吗？ </p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">&nbsp;</p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">老婆，是家常饭；情人，是调味品；红颜，是虚荣的点缀。如果有可能，男人都需要，但也仅是需要罢了。累。 </p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">&nbsp;</p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">男人，处在老婆、情人和红颜之间，极尽周旋之能事，累多？爱多？浪漫多？也许，只是一种消遣罢了。 </p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">&nbsp;</p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">&nbsp;</p>
            <p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">本文章引用通告地址(TrackBack Ping URL)为: http://blog.hc360.com/portal/personShowArticle.do?articleId=145105 </p>
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<title>[转]30岁之前不必在乎的29件事 </title>
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<issued>2007-06-20T11-22-12 CST</issued> 
<created>2007-06-20T11-22-12 CST</created>
<modified>2008-10-12T08-54-22Z</modified>
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<name>liuyang7788</name>
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<dc:subject>说点人生</dc:subject>
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                        <td><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">1.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">放弃</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">把握的反面就是放弃，选择了一个机会，就等于放弃了其它所有的可能。当新的机会摆在面前的时候，敢于放弃已经获得的一切，这不是功亏一篑，这不是半途而废，这是为了谋求更大的发展空间；或者什么都不为，只因为喜欢这样做，因为，年轻就是最大的机会。人，只有在三十岁之前才会有这个胆量，有这个别资本，有这个资格。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; 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FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">如果只是一个过程，那么正是这个年龄应当经历的，如果要承担结果，三十岁以后，可能会更有能力，更有资格。其实，三十岁之前我们要做的事情很多，稍纵即逝，过久地沉溺在已经干涸的爱河的河床中，与这个年龄的生命节奏不合。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />3.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">离婚</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">不是不在乎，是一切还来得及。一位三十八岁的女友与老公结婚十五年，冷战十三年，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">终于分手。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">她说</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; 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mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">漂泊</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">漂泊不是一种不幸，而是一种资格。趁着没有家室拖累，趁着身体健康，此时不飘何时</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">飘？当然，漂泊的不一定是身体，也许只是幻想和梦境。新世纪的时尚领袖是飘一代，渴望漂泊的人惟一不飘的是那颗心。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; 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mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">时尚</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">不要追赶时尚。按说青年人应该是最时尚的，但是独立思考和个性生活更重要。在这个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">物质社会，其实对时尚的追求早已经成为对金钱的追求。今天，时尚是物欲和世俗的同义语。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br />7.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">格调</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">这是小资的东西，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">小资</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">这个词在今天又二度流行，追求格调就是他们的专利。小资</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">们说，有格调要满足四大要件：智慧、素养、自信和金钱。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">格调就是把</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">高尚</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">理解成穿着、气质、爱好的品味和室内装潢。也就是大老粗只会表现谈吐的庸俗，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">小资</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">们已经有能力庸俗他们的心灵了。主流观念倒不是非要另类，另类已经成为年轻人观</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">念的主流了，在今天，老土倒显得另类。关键是当今社会是一个创造观念的时代，而不是一个固守陈旧观念的时代。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />8.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">评价</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">我们最不应该做出的牺牲就是因为别人的评价而改变自我，因为那些指手画脚的人自己</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">也不知道他</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">们遵从的规则是什么。千万不要只遵从规矩做事，规矩还在创造之中，要根据自己的判断做每一件事，虽然这样会麻烦一点。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />9.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">幼稚</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">不要怕人说我们幼稚，这正说明你还年轻，还充满活力。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">成熟</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">是个吓人的词儿，也</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">是个害人的</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">词儿。成熟和幼稚是对一个人最大而无当、最不负责任、最没用的概括。那些庸人，绝不会有人说</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">他们幼稚。不信，到哪天你被生活压得老气横秋，暮气沉沉的时候，人们一定会说你成熟了，你就会知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">成熟</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">是个什么东西。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />10.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">不适应</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">在一首摇滚乐中有这么一句</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">∶</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">这个城市改变了我，这个城市不需要我。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">不要盲目地</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">适应你生存的环境，因为很可能这环境自身已经不适应这个社会的发展了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />11.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">失败</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">我的老师曾经跟我说，一个人起码要在感情上失恋一次，在事业上失败一次，选择失误一次，才能</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">长大。不要说失败是成功之母那样的老话，失败来得越早越好，要是三十岁，四十岁之后再经历失败，有些事，很可能就来不及了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />12.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">错误</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">这是年轻人的专利。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />13.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">浅薄</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">如果每看一次《泰坦尼克号》就流一次眼泪，每看一次《大话西游》就笑得直不起腰，就会有人笑</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">你浅薄。其实那只能说明你的神经依旧非常敏锐，对哪怕非常微弱的刺激都会迅速做出适应的反</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">应；等你的感觉迟钝了，人们就会说你深沉了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />14.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">明星</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">不是不必在乎，是不能在乎。明星在商品社会是一种消费品，花了钱，听了歌，看了电</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">影，明星们</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">的表现再好，不过是物超所值而己，也不值得</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">R</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">拜呀？就像你在地摊上花五十块钱买的裙子，别人都猜是八百块钱买的，物超所值了吧？你就崇拜上这身裙子了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />15.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">代价</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">不是不计代价，而是要明白做任何事都要付出代价。对我们这个年龄的人来说，这绝不</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">是一句废</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">话。否则，要到三十岁的时候才会明白自己曾经付出了多少代价，却不明白为什么付出，更不明白自己得到了多少，得到什么。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />16</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">、孤独</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">这是为自由付出的代价。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />17</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">、失意</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">包括感情上的，事业上的，也许仅仅是今天花了冤枉钱没买到可心的东西，朋友家高朋满座自己却插不上一句话。过分在乎失意的感受不是拿命运的捉弄来捉弄自己，就是拿别人的错误来惩罚自己。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />18</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">、缺陷</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">也许你个子矮，也许你长得不好看，也许你的嗓音像唐老鸭</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&hellip;&hellip;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">那么你的优势就是你不会被自己表面的浅薄的亮点所耽搁，少花一些时间，少走一些弯，直接发现你内在的优势，直接挖掘自己深层的潜能。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />19</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">、误会</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">如果出于恶意，那么解释也没有用；如果出于善意，就不需要解释。专门说到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&quot;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">误会</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&quot;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">倒不是因为一个人在三十岁之前被人误会的时候更多，而是这个年龄的人想不开的时候更多。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br />20</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">、谣言</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">这是一种传染病，沉默是最好的疫苗。除非你能找出传染源，否则解释恰恰会成为病毒传播最理想的条件。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />21</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">、疯狂</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">这是年轻人最好的心理调适，只能说明你精力旺盛，身心健康。说你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&quot;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">疯狂</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&quot;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">是某些生活压抑、心力交瘁的中老年人恶意的评价，他们就像一部年久修的机器，最需要调试，但只能微调，一次大修就会让他们完全报废。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />22</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">、稳定</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">三十岁之前就在乎稳定的生活，那只有两种可能，要么就是中了彩票，要么就是未老先衰。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br />23</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">、压力</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; 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<title>女人永远不知道的12件事 </title>
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<issued>2007-06-20T11-02-17 CST</issued> 
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<dc:subject>茶余饭后</dc:subject>
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                        <td><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">※</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">1</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">、女人永远也不知道男人为什么要学会坚强</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">? <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">因为他们自己知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">他们虽然外表坚强</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">但内心很脆弱</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">他们永远想让自己身边的她觉得自己是最棒的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">. <br /><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">☆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">2</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">、女人永远也不知道男人为什么不会轻易掉眼泪</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">? <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">因为他们自己知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">他们不是不会掉眼泪</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">只是他明白</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">一但眼泪掉下来了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">这段感情也就结束了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">. <br /><br />3</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">、女人永远也不知道男人为什么每次在心烦的时候那么喜欢抽烟</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">? <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">因为他们自己知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">只有在烟雾中才能忆起他们过去美好的时光来寻求一点心里的平衡</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">. <br /><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">◇</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">4</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">、女人永远也不知道男人为什么要在分手以后还会对她嘘寒问暖</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">? <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">因为他们自己知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">他们并不是想跟你做朋友</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">只是想挽回这段曾经属于他的感情</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">. <br /><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">※</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">5</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">、女人永远也不知道男人为什么每次在听到她被欺负了会显得那么发狂</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">? <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">因为他们自己知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">哪怕这次架打输了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">躺下了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">他也会觉得高兴</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">因为他们宁愿自己受到伤害</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">也不愿意看到你哭泣</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">. <br /><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">☆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">6</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">、女人永远也不知道男人为什么在分手以后会夜夜买醉</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">? <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">因为他们知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">如果今晚不麻醉自己</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">那么今晚只能在思念中度过</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.<br /><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">※</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">7. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">女人永远也不知道男人为什么每次出门会出手那么大方</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">? <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">因为他们知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">他们宁愿自己一个人省吃检用</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">也不愿意你看到你被别人看不起</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">. <br /><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">☆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">8.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">女人永远也不知道男人为什么会那么爱对她发脾气</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">? <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">因为他们自己知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">对她发脾气并不是不爱她</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">只是希望她在以后的路上不被别人所欺骗</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">. <br /><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">☆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">9.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">女人永远也不知道男人为什么会那么在意你以前的男朋友</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">? <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">因为他们自己知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">并不是他们不自信</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">只是他们害怕有一天你会离他而去</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">. <br /><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">※</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">10.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">　女人永远也不知道男人为什么看到你为别人写的日记之后还会那么镇静的听你解释</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">? <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">因为他们自己知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">自己并不是不想发火</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">只是希望能从你的口中得知到底是他重要还是别人重要</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">? <br /><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">☆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">11</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">、女人永远也不知道男人为什么不对她说我爱你</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">⒊</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">个字</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">? <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">因为他们知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">并不是不想说</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">只是他们自己明白</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">⒈</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">万句我爱你用在身上也不够</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">. <br /><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">※</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">12. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">女人永远也不知道男人为什么会跑到这里来发贴</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">? <br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">因为他们知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">希望有一天这贴能被你看见</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">以此来证明你对他的不理解</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">只有他自己心里明白</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">这贴要是没人回的话</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">很快便会消失了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">你更不知道一个男人的幸福生活来之不易，那是他将每一个看过的贴子都顶了的缘故</span> </td>
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<entry>
<title>请客户吃饭谈点什么好？ </title>
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<issued>2007-06-20T10-55-50 CST</issued> 
<created>2007-06-20T10-55-50 CST</created>
<modified>2008-10-12T08-54-22Z</modified>
<id>tag:liuyang7788.blogchina.com,2005://811764</id>
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<name>liuyang7788</name>
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                        <td><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">谈起喝酒，几乎所有的人都有过切身体会，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">酒文化</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">也是一个既古老而又新鲜的话题。现代人在交际过程中，已经越来越多地发现了酒的作用。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">的确，酒作为一种交际媒介，迎宾送客，聚朋会友，彼此沟通，传递友情，发挥了独到的作用，所以，探索一下酒桌上的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">奥妙</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">，有助于你求人交际的成功。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /><br /><strong>1</strong></span><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">、众欢同乐，切忌私语</span></strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">大多数酒宴宾客都较多，所以应尽量多谈论一些大部分人能够参与的话题，得到多数人的认同。因为个人的兴趣爱好、知识面不同，所以话题尽量不要太偏，避免唯我独尊，天南海北，神侃无边，出现跑题现象，而忽略了众人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">特别是尽量不要与人贴耳小声私语，给别人一种神秘感，往往会产生</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">就你俩好</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">的嫉妒心理，影响喝酒的效果。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /><br /><strong>2</strong></span><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">、瞄准宾主，把握大局</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /></span></strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">大多数洒宴都有一个主题，也就是喝酒的目的。赴宴时首先应环视一下各位的神态表情，分清主次，不要单纯地为了喝酒而喝酒，而失去交友的好机会，更不要让某些哗众取宠的酒徒搅乱东道主的意思。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /><br /><strong>3</strong></span><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">、语言得当，诙谐幽默</span></strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /><br /></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">洒桌上可以显示出一个人的才华、常识、修养和交际风度，有时一句诙谐幽默的语言，会给客人留下很深的印象，使人无形中对你产生好感。所以，应该知道什么时候该说什么话，语言得当，诙谐幽默很关键。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /><br /><strong>4</strong></span><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">、劝酒适度，切莫强求</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /><br /></span></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">在酒桌上往往会遇到劝酒的现象，有的人总喜欢把酒场当战场，想方设法劝别人多喝几杯，认为不喝到量就是不实在。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><br /><br />&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">以酒论英雄</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; 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<title>转　　相安无事的唯一办法是欺骗</title>
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<![CDATA[<p>路灯缓缓的点亮城市，四周明亮了起来。一家中档的海鲜大排挡，低廉的薄塑料纸包裹着桌面，一群大口喝酒吆喝的男人和几个顾影自怜的女人在我们身旁不时地对干坐着半个小时的桌面空空如也的我们瞄几眼，远处的服务员等着看我们的笑话。包子不安了起来：&ldquo;这混账小子不会是不来了吧？&rdquo;他点起落座后的第四支烟，&ldquo;这地方可是他在电话里指定的，没错吧。&rdquo;他起身走到门口后退几步看招牌，嘟哝着，&ldquo;没错啊，宏发海鲜，不会跟我说找不到地儿吧。&rdquo;<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
<p>&ldquo;他不是那号人，兴许是交通堵塞，或者是闯红灯被交警罚站，要么就是老婆不让出门。&rdquo;<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
<p>&ldquo;依我看，是后者，俗话说男怕如错行，女怕嫁错郎。21世纪了呀，要以新观念看待社会问题了，&mdash;&mdash;男怕娶错妻。&rdquo;<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
<p>&ldquo;对不起，来晚了，&rdquo;杜留一路小跑抹着汗笑呵呵的进来。包子冲隔壁那桌的男男女女喊：&ldquo;服务员，服务员，点菜。&rdquo;<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
<p>&ldquo;真离了？&rdquo;包子看着端上来的一盘椒盐濑尿虾问杜留。<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
<p>&ldquo;还没有，拖着呢。&rdquo;<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
<p>&ldquo;咳，一日夫妻百日恩。真到了这关口，那也舍不得啊，晚上睡觉把枕头垫高一点好好地仔细地翻来覆去地想一想。&rdquo;<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
<p>&ldquo;要离还得离，女人呐，你不发威她以为你是病猫。&rdquo;我吐掉虾皮，&ldquo;外面有人了吧？&rdquo;<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
<p>杜留不吭声。包子说：&ldquo;男人有外遇那是最不应该的，这一点我首先反对，如今是什么年代，晓得不？是社会主义，男女应该平等，男人猖狂了大半个世纪，该歇菜当几天龟孙子。女人有外遇，那是面子啊，是吧，咱们男人脸上有光，你老婆没有外遇，那说明什么？说明你这个男人没眼光娶了个丑女人俗女人，别的男人看不上的女人你瞧上了。&rdquo;<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
<p>&ldquo;我老婆说她那不是外遇，不能以常人的眼光对待她和他之间的纯洁的感情&hellip;&hellip;&rdquo;<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
<p>&ldquo;无关乎肉体？&rdquo;<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
<p>&ldquo;嗯，基本上是这样。&rdquo;<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
<p>&ldquo;一家之言，甭信。一言以蔽之，人之初，性本善。&rdquo;<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
<p>&ldquo;你这样理解是不对的。&rdquo;我感慨激昂的抨击包子，&ldquo;不能复杂的把女人和非婚姻关系的男人之间的交往统称为外遇、婚外恋之类的名次代替。男人和女人之间最大的敌人是&hellip;&hellip;&rdquo;我喝了口酒，&ldquo;是不能理解，既然不能理解，那就不要理解了。离婚是正确的道路。&rdquo;<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
<p>&ldquo;你这是裁缝不用剪子&mdash;&mdash;胡扯。&rdquo;包子失望之极的摇头，&ldquo;骄傲来自浅薄，狂妄来自无知。何苦，你真无知。你想既不离婚又相安无事吗？&rdquo;包子扭头问发呆的杜留<span class="transparent"><font color="#e4ebf1" size="1">(来自&middot;幻剑书盟)</font></span></p>
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