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<title>单身汉的至尊宝,如何追求自己喜欢的女孩子</title>
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<![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">单身汉的至尊宝</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">(</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">没女朋友的都来看</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">)<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">网上找的，仅供参考</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman"><hr />&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">从一个女生的角度，我比较了解女孩子的心理</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">女孩子大多不会主动出击，去追求自己喜欢的男孩，除了确实太喜欢了或者是那种比较有个性的勇敢的女孩子</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">所以，如果你很喜欢一个女孩子，并且认为她对你也有点意思，那就主动点，别跟她搞拉锯战，自己难受，说不定你喜欢的人也痛苦</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">任何一个女孩子在被人追的时候，心理都是很复杂的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">她也许很开心，但是又带着点惶恐，她对这个闯进自己平静的生活的男孩子，有着欲拒还迎的矛盾心理，她不是故意的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">不要以为她在考验你，她其实也在和自己斗争，她怕受到伤害</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">不要怕你的主动会带来她的反感，你不主动，她也不主动，也就慢慢淡下来了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果你开始的表白被她拒绝，那也很正常呀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">不要气馁，谁知道这个女孩子心里在想什么呢</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">?<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">也许你再表白两次，她就会被你打动，一个心地善良的好女孩是很容易感动的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果你受到一次挫折，就立刻离开，再也不去答理这个女孩，把自己紧紧地保护起来，默默地舔舐伤口，在你痛苦的同时，殊不知，那个女孩子也许也正在心里遗憾，后悔呢</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">!</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">也许她会偷偷哭泣，后悔拒绝了你，再看到你漠然的眼神，她也很痛心，但是她却不会对你说，绝对不会请求你回来追她</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">你的过度的自尊心，可能会伤害了女孩子敏感的心</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">她会认为你不是真诚的喜欢他，要不怎么会就这么放弃了她</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">?<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">有人说，男生真难，追女孩子太不容易了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">可是我的感觉却是，这种现象跟男人和女人的社会角色定位是分不开的，从生理和社会的角度，女人总是被动的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果反过来，让男人都脉脉含羞，女人变得勇往直前，世界才乱了套呢</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">!</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">女人的羞涩总是美好的，动人的呀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">~~~</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我总是听说是某个勇敢的男人战胜了多少困难，最终获得佳人芳心</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">相反的例子却少得很</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">有的男生，就怕别人说自己什么死缠烂打，落下不好的名声</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">可是我觉得男生追求自己喜欢的女孩子，受了点挫折还继续对这个女孩子好，说明人家确实很喜欢，很有诚意，如果没成功，也不遗憾，并没什么啊</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">?</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">谁让人家喜欢了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">?</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">最讨厌别人跟着瞎掺乎，也最讨厌那种自己没主意，过于在乎别人对自己看法的男生，活该这种男生找不到女朋友</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">是男人就勇敢点，女孩子本来就感性，容易沉浸在爱情里</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">虽然你付出了辛苦，而一旦你的真心打动了她，那么你得到的将是更多更久的加倍的爱</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这样的例子，在身边比比皆是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">女孩子对自己的男朋友都是很温柔很贴心的，为了换来这份甜蜜，开头的辛苦算什么啊</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">?</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">而且大多好女孩都爱得挺投入挺专一的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">所以，建议有的男生勇敢一点，去追求自己喜欢的女孩子，不要那么畏畏缩缩，一来是让人觉得你没男人气概，二来是你自己怪难受的，然而最最最重要的还是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">:</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">最后你什么都得不到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">幸福总是自己挣来的，别指望别人施舍给你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">!<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">再补充一句，我觉得主动点儿挺好的，因为你的目标是你自己真心喜欢的，女孩子往往被动，被动的只能选择接受和拒绝，所以我宁愿主动出击，爱我所爱，无怨无悔</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;<hr /></font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一、应该给</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">MM</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">留下什么样的第一印象（时间：刚开始接触</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">MM</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、我认为最关键的，是要让</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">MM</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">看到你的上进心。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">男人的最大魅力在于事业有成，年轻人工作时间不长谈不上&ldquo;有成&rdquo;，这时候你就要让</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">MM</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">觉得你是个有上进心的人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">别的可以胡说八道，但这个问题不能含糊，你一定要告诉</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">MM</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，你对未来充满信心，你不满足于现状，并且你已经有了长远的计划，总之你的未来不是梦。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、要显得有信心、有责任心</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">不要像个小孩子，女孩子都很懒希望能找个依靠，你要拿出自己的信心和责任心来。有一个错的选择总比没有选择要好的多。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、不要太正经，但也不要太随便</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">该正经的地方就正经，该调侃的的时候就调侃。女孩子都喜欢有点玩世不恭的男人，所以别显得对什么都特别在意，那样太呆板。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、显得成熟一点</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">遇事镇定、从容不迫的男人对</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">MM</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">有致命的吸引力。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">二、如何与</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">MM</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">展开进一步接触（时间：开始追的阶段）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、这个阶段最关键的是不能着急，不要把事情弄的那么清楚，让人家一眼就能看出你在追人家。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">想一想，一般人都不会一眼就看上你，但也不会看一眼就讨厌你，都是老百姓家的孩子（除非你长得象周润发刘德华或者凯文科斯特纳），好感是需要随着了解的不断增加而实现的，所以问题的关键是你要得的进一步发展的机会。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">站在女孩子的角度替人家想一想：你这么直接了当的冲过来要搞对象，女孩子肯定有心理压力。这要是接触一阵后发现不喜欢你，那不就成了耍你了么？所以如果你开始就摆出志在必得的姿势出来，基本上会被立刻闷回去。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、要低姿态起步</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">首先要把关系定位成&ldquo;朋友&rdquo;，本来是&ldquo;普通朋友&rdquo;，你希望成为&ldquo;好朋友&rdquo;，有品位的还可以要求对方成为&ldquo;红颜知己&rdquo;什么的，总之千万不要说&ldquo;追你&rdquo;。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">你想想，你如果根本不提&ldquo;追&rdquo;，那么女孩子也就更没机会&ldquo;拒绝&rdquo;你&mdash;&mdash;你没追她怎么拒绝你？！这样可以减轻女孩子的心理压力，使你们能顺利的交往下去。不要幻想认识三天就答应嫁给你，要充分的交往、了解，感情不是凭空产生的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、交往的过程中不要太急躁</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">要有张有弛，不要整天缠着人家，谁这样对你，你也会腻。我有个好朋友对我说，追女孩子的关键是八个字&mdash;&mdash;&ldquo;忽冷忽热、欲擒故纵&rdquo;（这是我同学多少年心血的结晶）。你整天缠着人家自然不觉得你好，你适当的冷个一两天，女孩子就会想起你在的好处了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">还有就是不要拿出&ldquo;非你不娶&rdquo;的志气来，太掉价了不好，有时候可以耍点花招。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、要适当的创造机会</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">前面说了，不要使事情立刻变成&ldquo;你在追别人&rdquo;，而你又需要得到接近女孩子的机会，这时就要看你的创造力了。你可以搜集情报，想办法把守株待兔变成一场邂逅；也可以装做漫不经心的找出最最充足的理由邀请对方和你一起做什么事。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">总之这个是最有技术含量的地方，实在不行可以找前辈请教。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>5</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、切忌切忌：随便送人家礼物是不礼貌的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">有些人追女孩子心切，喜欢经常买东西送人家，殊不知追女孩子最忌讳这个。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">俗话说&ldquo;无功不受禄&rdquo;，你这样送人家东西就是在施加压力，人家会觉得欠你的，所以会想办法还给你，如果没办法还给你就会想办法不和你交往，免得总是欠你人情。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果你想显示自己的诚意，倒不妨请女孩子一起消费，比如说找好的餐厅吃饭，或者找贵的地方一起玩什么的，女孩子自然能看出你花了很多钱，但钱终究是两个人一起花了而不是变成东西带回家。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">三、&ldquo;女朋友&rdquo;到底是什么？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、&ldquo;女朋友&rdquo;是一种事实，而不是一份承诺</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">你和女孩子开始交往，从&ldquo;普通朋友&rdquo;变成&ldquo;好朋友&rdquo;，再到&ldquo;非常非常好、无话不谈的朋友&rdquo;，某一个阳光灿烂的午后，你&ldquo;不小心&rdquo;拉了她的手；&ldquo;月上柳梢头&rdquo;，你突然袭击吻了她。这时她就已经是你的女朋友了，无论她是否承认，她心理已经认为你是他男朋友了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我知道最高明的，直到上床了都没问过&ldquo;你是否愿意做我女朋友&rdquo;，最后还是女孩子急了</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">：&ldquo;你怎么还不求我做你女朋友啊！&rdquo;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">所以说，千万不要急于把窗户纸捅破，情况越朦胧对你越有利。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、&ldquo;表白&rdquo;是什么？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">前面说了，表白实际上就是一个形式而已，正确的顺序应该是：事实上已经成为你女朋友了，你才能向人家表白，水到渠成。很多人弄不明白这个问题，总以为人家先答应做自己女朋友，然后再如何如何，我只能说他非常非常&ldquo;单纯&rdquo;，也非常非常&ldquo;愚蠢&rdquo;。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、有没有&ldquo;迫不得已非表白不可&rdquo;的时候？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">有，比如说出现第三者，或者你和女孩子关系没有成熟但两个人可能分开一段时间。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这时候的表白就是条件不成熟的表白，风险非常大，类似于下围棋的时候形势严峻，落后的一方迫于无奈放出&ldquo;胜负手&rdquo;，赢了就赢了，输了也只能说&ldquo;倒霉都是天生的&rdquo;。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、&ldquo;爱&rdquo;字不要轻易出口</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">经常看见论坛出现&ldquo;大胆的表白&rdquo;，说实话我真的认为这是非常不成熟的一种表现。&ldquo;爱&rdquo;是一个神圣的字，意味着追求，也意味着承诺，甚至体现出一种责任。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">随便说&ldquo;爱&rdquo;的男人是不负责任的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">四、文明恋爱，不可强求</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、不是每个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">MM</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">都能追到手的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">好女孩子总会有很多人追，不可能遂了每个人的心愿，总会有失败者。举个例子，就算你刻苦钻研掌握了最搞超的追</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">MM</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">原理，你一样追不上</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">TWINS</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">里的任何一个。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">换个角度考虑问题，一个小学没毕业的农村小保姆，即使对你再好，每个月赚</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">600</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">给你买</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">700</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">的礼物（透支），愿意为你&ldquo;当牛做马&rdquo;，你也不会爱上她。如果她每天哭哭啼啼的缠着，你肯定觉得烦。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">所以说爱情是需要物质基础的，至少需要平衡。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、追</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">MM</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">做是一种严肃的社会活动</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">千万不要把人家搞烦了，要给自己留后路。大丈夫何患无妻？有些</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">MM</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">确实势利眼（少数），如果不服气，你可以发愤图强，用事实证明&ldquo;她当时瞎了眼&rdquo;，绝对不要误人误己。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">最后补充一点千万不要在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman">MM</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">面前显得愤世嫉俗，愤世嫉俗有时候意味着&ldquo;你很失败&rdquo;。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">关于送礼物：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">只要是真心的都是最好的！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">给她一天细致的关怀！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">平淡中最见真情！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">让她感受到寒冷的冬天你给她带来的温暖！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">相信她一定会被你感动的！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">加油啊！&mdash;&mdash;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: navy; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<![CDATA[<h3><a href="http://mumiandbaby.blog.bokee.net/bloggermodule/bokeenote_view.do?id=1492433">关于文章中插入电影</a></h3>
<h2>我只知道可以插入FLASH类型的电影,对于MEDIL PLAY的类型不大清楚,方法是找到电影的超链接复制后粘贴到文章里,博客里好象不行,不支持 </h2>]]>
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<pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2007 13:58:33 CST </pubDate>
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<![CDATA[中国有34个省级行政单位 <br /><br />北京市（京） <br />上海市（沪） <br />天津市（津） <br />重庆市（渝） <br />河北省（冀） <br />山西省（晋） <br />辽宁省（辽） <br />吉林省（吉） <br />黑龙江省（黑） <br />江苏省（苏） <br />浙江省（浙） <br />安徽省（皖) <br />福建省（闽） <br />江西省（赣） <br />山东省（鲁） <br />河南省（豫） <br />湖北省（鄂） <br />湖南省（湘） <br />广东省（粤） <br />海南省（琼） <br />四川省（川、蜀） <br />贵州省（黔、贵） <br />云南省（滇、云） <br />陕西省（陕、秦） <br />甘肃省（甘、陇） <br />青海省（青） <br />广西壮族自治区（桂） <br />宁夏回族自治区（宁） <br />西藏自治区（藏） <br />新疆维吾尔族自治区（新） <br />内蒙古自治区（蒙） <br />台湾省（台） <br />香港特别行政区（港） <br />澳门特别行政区（澳） <br />]]>
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<pubDate>Wed, 03 Oct 2007 19:13:00 CST </pubDate>
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<title>14条不可不知的手机电池充电技巧    </title>
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<![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">十四条不可不知的手机电池充电技巧</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span><o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果用户希望延长电池的有效使用时间，除了充电器的质量要有保证外，正确的充电技巧也必不可少，因为质量差的充电器或错误的充电方法都将影响电池的使用时间和循环寿命，下面就是有关充电技巧：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．电池出厂前，厂家都进行了激活处理，并进行了预充电，因此电池均有余电，有朋友说电池按照调整期时间充电，待机仍严重不足，假设电池确为正品电池的话，这种情况下应延长调整期再进行</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">3~5</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">次完全充放电。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．如果新买的手机电池是锂离子，那么前</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">3~5</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">次充电一般称为调整期，应充</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">14</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">小时以上，以保证充分激活锂离子的活性。锂离子电池没有记忆效应，但有很强的隋性，应给予充分激活后，才能保证以后的使用能达到最佳效能。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．有些自动化的智能型快速充电器当指示信号灯转变时，只表示充满了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">90</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">％。充电器会自动改变用慢速充电将电池充满。最好将电池充满后使用，否则会缩短使用时间。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．充电前，锂电池不需要专门放电，放电不当反而会损坏电池。充电时尽量以慢充充电，减少快充方式；时间不要超过</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">24</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">小时。电池经过三至五次完全充放电循环后其内部的化学物质才会被全部&ldquo;激活&rdquo;达到最佳使用效果。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">5</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．请使用原厂或声誉较好的品牌的充电器，锂电池要用锂电池专用充电器，并遵照指示说明，否则会损坏电池，甚至发生危险。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">6</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．有很多用户常常在充电时还把手机开着，其实这样会很容易伤害手机寿命的，因为在充电的过程中，手机的电路板会发热，此时如果有外来电话时，可能会产生瞬间回流电流，对手机内部的零件造成损坏。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">7</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．电池的寿命决定于反复充放电次数，所以应尽量避免电池有余电时充电，这样会缩短电池的寿命。手机关机时间超过</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">7</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">天时，应先将手机电池完全放电，充足电后再使用。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">8</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．手机电池都存在自放电，不用时镍氢电池每天会按剩余容量的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">％左右放电，锂电池每天会按</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">0</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">％</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">~0</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">％放电。在给电池充电时，尽量使用专用插座，不要将充电器与电视机等家电共用插座。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">9</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．尽管手机在网络覆盖区域之内，但在手机关机充电时，手机已经无法接受和拨打电话了。此时，可以使用手机的未通转移功能，将手机转移到身边的固定电话上，以防止来电丢失，这种方法对于手机不在网络覆盖区域内或者信号微弱而暂时无法接通时也适用。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">10</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．不要将电池暴露在高温或严寒下，像三伏天时，不应把手机放在车里，经受烈日的曝晒；或拿到空调房中，放在冷气直吹的地方。当充电时，电池有一点热是正常的，但不能让它禁受高温的&ldquo;煎熬&rdquo;。为了避免这种情况的发生，最好是在室温下进行充电，并且不要在手机上覆盖任何东西。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">11</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．镍镉</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">(n icd)</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">电池充电前必须保证电池完全没电，再充电后必须保证电池充足电。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">12</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．如果手机电池放置太长时间而未用，最好到手机维修部门申请给电池作一个活处理，也可以自己用一个直流恒压器，调整电压为</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">5~6v</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，电流</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">500~600ma</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">反向连接电池。注意，一触即放开，最多重复三次即可，经过这样处理后，再用原装充电器进行&ldquo;调整期&rdquo;充电。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">13</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．充电时不是时间越长越好，对没有保护电路的电池充满后即应停止充电，否则电池会因发热或过热影响性能。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">14</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">．锂离子电池必须选用专用充电器，否则可能会达不到饱和状态，影响其性能发挥。充电完毕后，应避免放置在充电器上超过</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">12</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">小时以上，长期不用时应使电池和手机分离。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>]]>
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<title>心疼女人的12种方式    </title>
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<![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">心疼女人的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">12</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">种方式</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span><o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、当你爱着一个女孩子，一定要记得经常对她说：我爱你。不管已经说过多少次，不管是她第几百次问你&ldquo;你爱我吗？&rdquo;当她对你说&ldquo;我爱你&rdquo;，你都要很真诚地说：我也爱你，不是用其他话或者觉得多余。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、如果你不爱她了，放了她。不要白白享受着她的照顾和温柔，然后漫不经心地寻找着别的女孩，在找到之后才说我们分手吧，又或者干脆脚踏两只船。　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、在你的朋友和她的朋友面前不要总一摆出一副大男人呼来唤去的样子。女人愿意照顾你，满足你大男人对&ldquo;三从四德&rdquo;的喜好，是因为她爱你她宠你，但并不表示她愿意被当做佣人和附庸。　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、你答应她的事情再小也要做到。女人都希望有个坚强的肩膀依赖，想告诉你她的一切，但是你如果连小事情都做不好，她怎么去依赖你？当她说一些你不认可的事情也不要去指责或者冷漠，这样她怎么去信任你把心里话都告诉你？　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">5</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、不要总在你们相处的时候打游戏或者上电脑。当你不亦乐乎的时候，她也许已经觉得很被冷落，而你却只注意着你的电脑。　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><font face="Times New Roman">6</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、女人总有几天是经期，那时候是不能用理智控制的。不管她怎么歇斯底里、不讲道理、喜怒无常，你都要哄着她包容她。绝不要表现出不快和不耐烦。　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<title>飘雪的日子，你载着我的幸福前行......(转)</title>
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<![CDATA[<strong><font face="楷体_GB2312" color="#333300" size="3">&nbsp;记得那一年的飘雪，世界静悄悄的。静谧中透着安祥，悠闲中又那样匆忙。世界白茫茫一片，却见不到雪落的迹象。只是在对着一个背景时，才能恍惚看见一片片斜斜飘落的精灵。只是在落地的一刹那，才悠忽间看见了眨眼又没了踪迹。就像一天天流淌的岁月那样没有声息，似乎追忆着的青春那样无奈彷徨。</font></strong>
<p><br /><strong><font face="楷体_GB2312" color="#333300" size="3">&nbsp;曾经高远的天空也压低了。天和地融为一体，路和地混为一块，山野和河流混为一谈。万物丧失了曾经的棱角，都在茫茫的凝聚着，是否也准备像雪花那样，积攒起一股飞舞的力量？<br /></font></strong></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" color="#333300" size="3"><strong>&nbsp;屏住气做一次深呼吸，一阵凉爽浸遍，一份冰冷驱走思绪。极目茫茫，刮着萧瑟，裹着凄冷，带着浪漫，也携着爱的芳香，虚幻缥缈，洋洋洒洒，舒适安祥。就在这片混沌里，连自己也被慢慢融化，飘飞成一片雪花，和世界融合在一起，把一份心情静悄悄的填满整个苍穹。</strong></font>&nbsp;</p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" color="#333300" size="3"><strong>&nbsp;我知道今天的天空飘起雪花，你一定会开着你那辆红的似火的海炫来迎接我们的约定。</strong></font></p>
<p><strong><font face="楷体_GB2312" color="#333300" size="3"></font></strong><font face="楷体_GB2312" color="#333300" size="3"><strong><br /><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="3">&nbsp;呆呆的感觉这忽然不一样了的世界，尘嚣的嘈杂被雪花过滤了，俗世的欲望被雪水凝结了，剩下的只是一片幽静和安逸。辽阔着，苍茫着，装扮着一个白茫茫的世界。就在这片圣洁的茫茫里，闭上眼睛，沉迷于一段忘我空灵的宁静，放弃一份欲说还休的烦恼，体会一种领会顿悟的快感，享受一份了却尘缘的轻松。</font></strong></font></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" color="#333300" size="3"><strong>&nbsp;你终于实现了你的承诺，红色的车身挂满了银白色的飘絮，来到我的窗前。我急速下楼，准备一次浪漫的行程。</strong></font></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" color="#333300" size="3"><strong>&nbsp;你的笑容依然灿烂，很绅士地接我入车，你没有任何很多的语言来讨我的欢心，因为默契的心灵会互相对话。</strong></font></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" color="#333300" size="3"><strong>&ldquo;准备好了吗？开始出发了！&rdquo;你侧头微笑着问我。</strong></font></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" color="#333300" size="3"><strong>&ldquo;嗯！&rdquo;我幸福的答应着。于是你开大档数，带起我们的幸福前行。。。。。<br />&nbsp;我忍不住伸出手，看雪花落在手心。数着一片、两片、三片&hellip;&hellip;一个个完美的艺术品，瞬间被覆盖和融化，成为一滴毫无意义的雪水。不知什么时候，你停下了车，伸手抱着我，给了我一个深深的热吻。。。。。。</strong></font></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" color="#333300" size="3"><strong>&nbsp;往事如风，岁月如梭，那次的疯狂淹没了你我的青春，可是你说让我努力等待你的未来，你一定要开着属于自己的海炫与我畅游全世界。于是离别成了你我相隔遥远的距离，你去了远方，去实现你的梦想，就为了我当时的一句话：亲爱的，我爱死那紫色的奥德赛了，你能将来送我一辆吗？因此你说为了让我过上幸福的生活，背上行囊去了繁华的城市。</strong></font><strong><font face="楷体_GB2312" color="#333300" size="3"></font></strong>&nbsp;</p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" color="#333300" size="3"><strong>&nbsp;呆呆的仰起头，奉献出两张没有遮拦的面颊，感受一个又一个冷吻，让人想起热恋时融化在怀的那份情谊。断续的刺激，搅动早已沉淀的回忆，翻滚曾经平和的心绪。过去了的岁月，对生命的领悟，对未来的憧憬，是否还那样一如既往？<br /><br />&nbsp;最熟悉美丽的记忆，总是在飘雪的日子。想起一直不曾遗忘的过去，当然所有的过去里都有一个你。对寒冷的感受，总包含两双手的温暖；对世界的冷漠，总感动两颗心的共振。快乐的回忆里，总是少不了雪花的影子；幸福的甜蜜里，总是有你我和雪花在一起。缠绵的梦境里，总是不愿承认今夜的身边没有你。</strong></font></p>
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<p><br /><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="3">&nbsp;当年雪下那片承载了恋人相拥的屋檐可还在吗？曾几何时旷野里那棵见证了亲人热吻的梅花可还开吧？屋檐还在，梅花仍开，当年的激情还能找回来吗？却为何在这个下雪的日子里，没有了雪的沉淀，没有了你我共同的缠绵，而只有雪花融化后的水珠在不停地滴流？</font></p>
<p><br /><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="3">&nbsp;日子在一天天过去，多少思念已成回忆，爱恨情仇也一样流逝，亦如这寒冷的日子里对雪花的记忆。只在下雪的日子里，送去一份祝福，留下一个心愿，祝福天堂的你同时也祝福自己。真诚的感谢世间的一切快乐，真诚的感谢大自然的一切馈赠！</font></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="3">&nbsp;今天又是一个飘雪的日子，你是否在天的另一边和我一样在看雪呢！会不会和我一样在回忆呢？不管我们是如此的思念，还是永远的恋人．．．．．不都在这片天空下，欣赏这片还没被污染的雪落的印记？</font></p>
<p><br /><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="3">&nbsp;一个旋律，还这样缠绵，这么悠扬：飘雪的日子去流浪。蝶舞飞扬带不走我的寂寞凄凉。多想送你不绝的花香，多想与你共享一地月光。我只能披着晶莹的雪花，望着你消失在一片灯火辉煌&hellip;&hellip;<br /><br />&ldquo;雪儿，雪儿......&rdquo;，朦胧中听到一声耳熟的声音，是谁在呼唤我呢？好亲切好熟悉的声音，是他吗？我不敢转身，只是听见车子缓缓驶向越来越近的声音。难道是梦幻吗？还是不相信。突然一双温暖的手从后面紧紧地抱住我，耳边响起依旧的绵绵私语：雪儿，我的雪儿。我来了。我猛然转身抬起头来，眼泪眶早已湿润的我，开始欢腾起来，身边停着的就是我们的梦想，海炫，银白色的包裹缝隙中露出红色的芳香，我们紧紧地拥抱在一起，此时的我再也说不出话来了......<br /></font></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">任何病毒和木马存在于系统中，都无法彻底和进程脱离关系，即使采用了隐藏技术，也还是能够从进程中找到蛛丝马迹，因此，查看系统中活动的进程成为我们检测病毒木马最直接的方法。但是系统中同时运行的进程那么多，哪些是正常的系统进程，哪些是木马的进程，而经常被病毒木马假冒的系统进程在系统中又扮演着什么角色呢？请看本文。 </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em"><strong>病毒进程隐藏三法</strong> </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">当我们确认系统中存在病毒，但是通过&ldquo;任务管理器&rdquo;查看系统中的进程时又找不出异样的进程，这说明病毒采用了一些隐藏措施，总结出来有三法： </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em"><strong>1.以假乱真</strong> </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">系统中的正常进程有：svchost.exe、explorer.exe、iexplore.exe、winlogon.exe等，可能你发现过系统中存在这样的进程：svch0st.exe、explore.exe、iexplorer.exe、winlogin.exe。对比一下，发现区别了么？这是病毒经常使用的伎俩，目的就是迷惑用户的眼睛。通常它们会将系统中正常进程名的o改为0，l改为i，i改为j，然后成为自己的进程名，仅仅一字之差，意义却完全不同。又或者多一个字母或少一个字母，例如explorer.exe和iexplore.exe本来就容易搞混，再出现个iexplorer.exe就更加混乱了。如果用户不仔细，一般就忽略了，病毒的进程就逃过了一劫。 </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em"><strong>2.偷梁换柱</strong> </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">如果用户比较心细，那么上面这招就没用了，病毒会被就地正法。于是乎，病毒也学聪明了，懂得了偷梁换柱这一招。如果一个进程的名字为svchost.exe，和正常的系统进程名分毫不差。那么这个进程是不是就安全了呢？非也，其实它只是利用了&ldquo;任务管理器&rdquo;无法查看进程对应可执行文件这一缺陷。我们知道svchost.exe进程对应的可执行文件位于&ldquo;C:\WINDOWS\system32&rdquo;目录下（Windows 2000则是C:\WINNT\system32目录），如果病毒将自身复制到&ldquo;C:\WINDOWS\&rdquo;中，并改名为svchost.exe，运行后，我们在&ldquo;任务管理器&rdquo;中看到的也是svchost.exe，和正常的系统进程无异。你能辨别出其中哪一个是病毒的进程吗？ </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em"><strong>3.借尸还魂</strong> </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">除了上文中的两种方法外，病毒还有一招终极大法&mdash;&mdash;借尸还魂。所谓的借尸还魂就是病毒采用了进程插入技术，将病毒运行所需的dll文件插入正常的系统进程中，表面上看无任何可疑情况，实质上系统进程已经被病毒控制了，除非我们借助专业的进程检测工具，否则要想发现隐藏在其中的病毒是很困难的。 </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em"><strong>系统进程解惑</strong> </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">上文中提到了很多系统进程，这些系统进程到底有何作用，其运行原理又是什么？下面我们将对这些系统进程进行逐一讲解，相信在熟知这些系统进程后，就能成功破解病毒的&ldquo;以假乱真&rdquo;和&ldquo;偷梁换柱&rdquo;了。 </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em"><strong>Svchost.exe </strong></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">常被病毒冒充的进程名有：svch0st.exe、schvost.exe、scvhost.exe。随着Windows系统服务不断增多，为了节省系统资源，微软把很多服务做成共享方式，交由svchost.exe进程来启动。而系统服务是以动态链接库(DLL)形式实现的，它们把可执行程序指向scvhost，由cvhost调用相应服务的动态链接库来启动服务。我们可以打开&ldquo;控制面板&rdquo;&rarr;&ldquo;管理工具&rdquo;&rarr;服务，双击其中&ldquo;ClipBook&rdquo;服务，在其属性面板中可以发现对应的可执行文件路径为&ldquo;C:\WINDOWS\system32\clipsrv.exe&rdquo;。再双击Alerter&rdquo;服务，可以发现其可执行文件路径为&ldquo;C:\WINDOWS\system32\svchost.exe -k LocalService&rdquo;，而&ldquo;Server&rdquo;服务的可执行文件路径为&ldquo;C:\WINDOWS\system32\svchost.exe -k netsvcs&rdquo;。正是通过这种调用，可以省下不少系统资源，因此系统中出现多个svchost.exe，其实只是系统的服务而已。 </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">在Windows2000系统中一般存在2个svchost.exe进程，一个是RPCSS(RemoteProcedureCall)服务进程，另外一个则是由很多服务共享的一个svchost.exe；而在WindowsXP中，则一般有4个以上的svchost.exe服务进程。如果svchost.exe进程的数量多于5个，就要小心了，很可能是病毒假冒的，检测方法也很简单，使用一些进程管理工具，例如Windows优化大师的进程管理功能，查看svchost.exe的可执行文件路径，如果在&ldquo;C:\WINDOWS\system32&rdquo;目录外，那么就可以判定是病毒了。 </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em"><strong>Explorer.exe</strong> </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">常被病毒冒充的进程名有：iexplorer.exe、expiorer.exe、explore.exe。explorer.exe就是我们经常会用到的&ldquo;资源管理器&rdquo;。如果在&ldquo;任务管理器&rdquo;中将explorer.exe进程结束，那么包括任务栏、桌面、以及打开的文件都会统统消失，单击&ldquo;任务管理器&rdquo;&rarr;&ldquo;文件&rdquo;&rarr;&ldquo;新建任务&rdquo;，输入&ldquo;Explorer.exe&rdquo;后，消失的东西又重新回来了。explorer.exe进程的作用就是让我们管理计算机中的资源。 </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">Explorer.exe进程默认是和系统一起启动的，其对应可执行文件的路径为&ldquo;C:\Windows&rdquo;目录，除此之外则为病毒。 </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em"><strong>Iexplore.exe </strong></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">常被病毒冒充的进程名有：iexplorer.exe、iexploer.exeiexplorer.exe进程和上文中的explorer.exe进程名很相像，因此比较容易搞混，其实iexplorer.exe是Microsoft Internet Explorer所产生的进程，也就是我们平时使用的IE浏览器。知道作用后辨认起来应该就比较容易了，iexplorer.exe进程名的开头为&ldquo;ie&rdquo;，就是IE浏览器的意思。 </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">iexplore.exe进程对应的可执行程序位于C:\ProgramFiles\InternetExplorer目录中，存在于其他目录则为病毒，除非你将该文件夹进行了转移。此外，有时我们会发现没有打开IE浏览器的情况下，系统中仍然存在iexplore.exe进程，这要分两种情况：1.病毒假冒iexplore.exe进程名。2.病毒偷偷在后台通过iexplore.exe干坏事。因此出现这种情况还是赶快用杀毒软件进行查杀吧。 </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em"><strong>Rundll32.exe</strong> </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">常被病毒冒充的进程名有：rundl132.exe、rundl32.exe。rundll32.exe在系统中的作用是执行DLL文件中的内部函数，系统中存在多少个Rundll32.exe进程，就表示Rundll32.exe启动了多少个的DLL文件。其实rundll32.exe我们是会经常用到的，他可以控制系统中的一些dll文件，举个例子，在&ldquo;命令提示符&rdquo;中输入&ldquo;rundll32.exe user32.dll,LockWorkStation&rdquo;，回车后，系统就会快速切换到登录界面了。rundll32.exe的路径为&ldquo;C:\Windows\system32&rdquo;，在别的目录则可以判定是病毒。 </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em"><strong>Spoolsv.exe </strong></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">常被病毒冒充的进程名有：spoo1sv.exe、spolsv.exe。spoolsv.exe是系统服务&ldquo;Print Spooler&rdquo;所对应的可执行程序，其作用是管理所有本地和网络打印队列及控制所有打印工作。如果此服务被停用，计算机上的打印将不可用，同时spoolsv.exe进程也会从计算机上消失。如果你不存在打印机设备，那么就把这项服务关闭吧，可以节省系统资源。停止并关闭服务后，如果系统中还存在spoolsv.exe进程，这就一定是病毒伪装的了。 </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">限于篇幅，关于常见进程的介绍就到这里，我们平时在检查进程的时候如果发现有可疑，只要根据两点来判断：1.仔细检查进程的文件名；2.检查其路径。通过这两点，一般的病毒进程肯定会露出马脚。 </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em"><strong>找个管理进程的好帮手</strong> </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">系统内置的&ldquo;任务管理器&rdquo;功能太弱，肯定不适合查杀病毒。因此我们可以使用专业的进程管理工具，例如Procexp。Procexp可以区分系统进程和一般进程，并且以不同的颜色进行区分，让假冒系统进程的病毒进程无处可藏。 </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">运行Procexp后，进程会被分为两大块，&ldquo;System Idle Process&rdquo;下属的进程属于系统进程， </p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 2em">Explorer.exe&rdquo;下属的进程属于一般进程。我们介绍过的系统进程svchost.exe、winlogon.exe等都隶属于&ldquo;System Idle Process&rdquo;，如果你在&ldquo;explorer.exe&rdquo;中发现了svchost.exe，那么不用说，肯定是病毒冒充的。</p>
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<![CDATA[<h4 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span lang="EN-US"><span><a href="http://hkfly.ys168.com/"><span>由于所下载<strong onmouseover="isShowAds = true;isShowAds2 = true;ads.Move(this,&quot;http://rad.17luntan.com/UploadImage/5/632998790290732500.bmp&quot;,&quot;%u4E16%u754C%u4E0A%u6700%u53EF%u7231%u7684%u732B%u83AB%u8FC7%u4E8E%u5496%u5561%u732B%u3002&quot;,&quot;13979&quot;,&quot;影片&quot;,&quot;%u5F71%u7247&quot;,&quot;http%3A//search.paipai.com/cgi-bin/comm_search%3FKeyWord%3D%26Address%3D%26Rf%3D24501-24513/p-1-40-atime-24513--3-4-1------2--192-.shtml%26ADTAG%3D192.1.1&quot;)" style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; CURSOR: hand; COLOR: blue; TEXT-DECORATION: underline" onclick="javascript:window.open(&quot;http://rad.17luntan.com/ClickPortal/WebClick.aspx?id=13979&amp;k=%u5F71%u7247&amp;siteid=pw372286f736d1ccd358d235f096f8867c&amp;url=http%3A//www.xljia.com/bbs/simple/index.php%3Ft6276.html&amp;gourl=http%3A//search.paipai.com/cgi-bin/comm_search%3FKeyWord%3D%26Address%3D%26Rf%3D24501-24513/p-1-40-atime-24513--3-4-1------2--192-.shtml%26ADTAG%3D192.1.1&amp;parm=F955E758CFA41AB9C92C06E148525C6FEAC2936CED19CEEB&amp;alliedsiteid=0&quot;);" onmouseout="isShowAds = false;isShowAds2 = false;">影片</strong>中rm或者rmvb格式的<strong onmouseover="isShowAds = true;isShowAds2 = true;ads.Move(this,&quot;http://rad.17luntan.com/UploadImage/5/632998790290732500.bmp&quot;,&quot;%u4E16%u754C%u4E0A%u6700%u53EF%u7231%u7684%u732B%u83AB%u8FC7%u4E8E%u5496%u5561%u732B%u3002&quot;,&quot;6271&quot;,&quot;电影&quot;,&quot;%u7535%u5F71&quot;,&quot;http%3A//search.paipai.com/cgi-bin/comm_search%3FKeyWord%3D%26Address%3D%26Rf%3D24501-24513/p-1-40-atime-24513--3-4-1------2--192-.shtml%26ADTAG%3D192.1.1&quot;)" style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; 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            <div class="cnt"><a href="javascript:void(0);/*1183578317265*/">遇到看电影时RealPlayer就自动弹出网页,而且会越来越多,有人觉的这很可能是病毒,我告诉大家,这一定是病毒!如果喜欢下载电影看,但却因为有病毒而望洋兴叹,是不是有点可惜呢,而中了病毒的人又要重装系统,很多重要文件都会丢失,实在可惜了,怎样又可以防病毒,又可以安心看电影的方法.</a></div>
            <div class="cnt"><a href="javascript:void(0);/*1183578317265*/">首先:打开你RealPlayer所在的文件夹,比如C:\Program Files\Real\RealPlayer,然后再打开里面的子文件夹rpplugins,在里面找到一个:rpwe3260.dll文件,把它删掉(最好放到回收站)就可以了<br />因为rpwe3260.dll这个文件是RealPlayer的网页浏览系统,把它删了,RealPlayer就不能再进行网络浏览,自然病毒就进不来了</a></div>
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<![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏">几年前的我，作梦也不敢想像自己可以写出这么多文章来，对于那些熟悉我的人来说，这可能也是&ldquo;母猪上树&rdquo;，不可能的事。哈哈哈！<img alt="" src="http://www.bokee.net/common/js/fckeditor/editor/images/smiley/msn/teeth_smile.gif" />&nbsp;我做到了，这就叫-------破天荒。这就叫-------只有想不到，没有做不到。在部分人的眼里，我的博文可能就四个字<span lang="EN-US">--------</span>扰人视听。我没办法保证每个人都喜欢我，就像我没办法保证自己去喜欢每个人一样，但我会尽量的去喜欢每个人，因为喜欢人是一件很幸福的事，就像因为有了冰笛<span lang="EN-US">MM</span>、一清大师。。。。。。。的博友以后，我就多了很多个可以去的地方，每次回来以后总是觉得心暖暖的。所以还是要感谢企业博客网，感谢博友，感谢自己。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏">我想从小学到步入社会，我所写的作文应该也就跟<span lang="EN-US">300</span>篇差不多吧！因为我写作文的心态是：能不写就不写，没办法不写那就抄，还可耻的自我安慰说：天下文章一般高，只看会抄不会抄。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏">其实我也不是一开始就不喜欢写作文的，记得小学三年级的时候，老师拿我的作文当范文在全班同学面前念呢！那时候的我不知道有多喜欢写作文呢！可惜好景不长，到四年级的时候，那位伯<st1:personname w:st="on" productid="乐">乐</st1:personname>老师被一位可恶的老师给代替了。这位可恶的老师简直就是封建社会的历史遗物，一个典型的重男轻女。记得有一次，我病了，重感冒，不知道是晕了还是累了，趴课桌上睡着了。那个可恶的老师用教鞭狠狠地打了我一下，我被痛醒了。可恶的老师就罚我站在黑板边上面壁思过，同学们在底下偷偷地看着我笑。这让我那幼小的心灵严重的受伤，从此就讨厌上语文课。现在回想起来，我这辈子还真是让<st1:personname w:st="on" productid="那">那</st1:personname>老师给误了。如果<st1:personname w:st="on" productid="那伯乐">那伯乐</st1:personname>老师一直教我，说不定我现在还能当上个郑渊洁第二呢？<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏">呵呵！现在的我好象又遇见了伯乐了，写博客的那个兴奋劲就像是小学三年级那会儿一样。真有点时光倒流的味道。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>]]>
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<![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 关于成功的秘方，新华书店里有一大堆，李嘉诚、比尔盖茨、牛根生、孔子。。。。。。。。可是，我们经常忽略一点，那就是&ldquo;领域不同，专业角度相同&rdquo;的道理，比如说办企业的看不起白领，白领看不起蓝领。所谓人往高处走，水往低处流。谁会记得偶尔也回回头。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏">命运是掌握在自己手中的，运气也是如此，说起来也就是现在流行的心态问题。比如说，我今年分店关门大吉，店里生意又不尽人意，于是，抱怨一大堆，闷气天天随，其实都是自己的心在作鬼。想想三餐还是没问题，生意还是照样在继续，只是口袋里的票子少一点而已。虽然，几年的努力看不到什么实际的东西，就是没有去想：我已经失败到极点了，没有办法再失败了，紧接下去也就一定会成败了。这可不是自我安慰，就是历史的道理。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏">别人的成败也不是一朝一夕，也都是有几次的跌倒与爬起。不知道谁说的：人活在天堂的美梦与地狱的噩梦之间，如果不学着热爱眼前，也就只有累着趴着的活着。是啊！眼前不管是风是雨，如果不试着去爱它理服它，就算是亿万富翁想着的可能也只是&ldquo;如何保住自己的财产，向着十亿百亿的方向走，不让它流失&rdquo;那可能也是一个痛苦的梦。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏">面对是摆在眼前唯一的路，退缩已不可能了，已无退路，唯有一博。成也英雄，败也英雄。舍弃真的需要很大的勇气，那是另外一种境界。以后有机会再慢慢练习，现在的我要勇敢的面对眼前的事。</span></p>]]>
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