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<entry>
<title>暗伤如故</title>
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<issued>2009-06-04T18-59-04 CST</issued> 
<created>2009-06-04T18-59-04 CST</created>
<modified>2009-06-04T18-59-04Z</modified>
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<author>
<name>silence769</name>
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<dc:subject>Default Cloumn</dc:subject>
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<![CDATA[<p><font color="#008080" size="4">北方没有雨，</font></p>
<p><font color="#008080" size="4">是不是化作了</font></p>
<p><font color="#008080" size="4">流落在北方的</font></p>
<p><font color="#008080" size="4">南方女孩的相思泪，</font></p>
<p><font color="#008080" size="4">夜深人静时，</font></p>
<p><font color="#008080" size="4">点点滴滴，</font></p>
<p><font color="#008080" size="4">浓情</font><font color="#008080" size="4">染遍黑色的夜。</font></p>
<p><font color="#008080" size="4"></font>&nbsp;</p>]]>
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<entry>
<title>思</title>
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<issued>2009-06-04T18-57-55 CST</issued> 
<created>2009-06-04T18-57-55 CST</created>
<modified>2009-06-04T18-57-55Z</modified>
<id>tag:silence769.blogchina.com,2005://3156419</id>
<author>
<name>silence769</name>
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<dc:subject>情感绿洲</dc:subject>
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<![CDATA[<p>我们就这样在人生道路上走着，</p>
<p>许多人不知不觉成了路边的风景，</p>
<p>在我们眼里出出入入，</p>
<p>他们不会跟着我们，</p>
<p>不会永远陪伴在我们身边，</p>
<p>甚至某天会逃离我们的记忆。</p>
<p>但是，总有那么几个人，</p>
<p>与我们志同道合，</p>
<p>从此就快乐地走下去，</p>
<p>没有谁在迁就谁，</p>
<p>没有谁为谁舍弃自己的方向，</p>
<p>却相伴着走过风雨，泥泞</p>
<p>于是，我们便演变成一个衡动的小世界，</p>
<p>有朝夕，</p>
<p>有四季，</p>
<p>有朝气蓬勃，壮志凌云，功成名就，夕阳黄昏。</p>
<p>当皱纹悄悄爬上额，白色渐渐侵染乌黑的发际，</p>
<p>这个世界，景观如初，笑声依旧。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]>
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</entry>

<entry>
<title>翠绿是伤逝后的生机</title>
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<issued>2009-06-04T18-56-05 CST</issued> 
<created>2009-06-04T18-56-05 CST</created>
<modified>2009-06-04T18-56-05Z</modified>
<id>tag:silence769.blogchina.com,2005://3156412</id>
<author>
<name>silence769</name>
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<dc:subject>情感绿洲</dc:subject>
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<![CDATA[<p>林花谢尽春红时</p>
<p>你是否还会留恋？</p>
<p>如果往事能挽留，</p>
<p>我依然要朝前走，</p>
<p>错过的不是美好，</p>
<p>是必然的伤逝，</p>
<p>是生机的开始。</p>]]>
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<entry>
<title>悲伤</title>
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<issued>2009-06-04T18-53-34 CST</issued> 
<created>2009-06-04T18-53-34 CST</created>
<modified>2009-06-04T18-53-34Z</modified>
<id>tag:silence769.blogchina.com,2005://3156402</id>
<author>
<name>silence769</name>
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<dc:subject>Default Cloumn</dc:subject>
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<![CDATA[<p>曾经，我为他们写下那些文字，</p>
<p>很长很长，</p>
<p>纸在风里变黄，</p>
<p>直到字迹模糊、</p>
<p>人影淡去。</p>
<p>&nbsp; </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>会有一个人为我写下一段文字吗？</p>
<p>不用刻意赞赏，</p>
<p>没有太多夸张，</p>
<p>也没有丝毫感伤，</p>
<p>仅用平平淡淡的文字</p>
<p>记住我的模样。</p>
<p>&nbsp; </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>没有的，不会有的。</p>
<p>于是，我撕毁那些留有岁月印记的纸张，</p>
<p>连同那些仔细斟酌的文字，</p>
<p>开始用我的文字记住自己的模样。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>对我而言，</p>
<p>没有人记住，</p>
<p>那不可悲，</p>
<p>可悲的是我忘记了记住自己的样子。</p>]]>
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<entry>
<title>有没有直达家门口的列车</title>
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<issued>2009-06-04T18-49-49 CST</issued> 
<created>2009-06-04T18-49-49 CST</created>
<modified>2009-06-04T18-49-49Z</modified>
<id>tag:silence769.blogchina.com,2005://3156386</id>
<author>
<name>silence769</name>
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</author>
<dc:subject>Default Cloumn</dc:subject>
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<![CDATA[<p>叶子终于在风中飘落了，</p>
<p>有的还泛着青，</p>
<p>却没有丝毫感伤。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>地面铺上厚厚一层，</p>
<p>走上去发出沙沙的声音，</p>
<p>听着很温馨。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>总在凌晨的睡梦里</p>
<p>默默地期盼着雪的来临，</p>
<p>雪来了我就可以回家了。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>家里的小草小树似乎都在向我召唤，</p>
<p>其实很思念陪伴我长大的它们，</p>
<p>以及替我照顾它们的奶奶，</p>
<p>多少顾虑在她们面前都显得无足轻重。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>只是想坐上火车静静地回家，</p>
<p>静静地看车窗外的风景，</p>
<p>静静地陪在亲人们身边，</p>
<p>过我平静的生活。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>有没有一辆直达家门口的列车，</p>
<p>让一路小草小树送我回家，</p>
<p>没有一张熟悉的脸孔......</p>]]>
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</entry>

<entry>
<title>他乡遇故知</title>
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<issued>2009-06-04T18-48-18 CST</issued> 
<created>2009-06-04T18-48-18 CST</created>
<modified>2009-06-04T18-48-18Z</modified>
<id>tag:silence769.blogchina.com,2005://3156373</id>
<author>
<name>silence769</name>
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<dc:subject>情感绿洲</dc:subject>
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<![CDATA[<p>清晨</p>
<p>在梦里隐隐约约闻到了他的气息，</p>
<p>推开窗，</p>
<p>一种清新感觉袭来，</p>
<p>他来了，</p>
<p>真的来了！</p>
<p>他终于来看我了！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>看，他正在招手！</p>
<p>我迫不及待地出门，</p>
<p>迈着大步，</p>
<p>奔向他的怀抱。</p>
<p>他用柔柔的手</p>
<p>抚摸我的脸庞。</p>
<p>在他从容的气息中，</p>
<p>似乎我的每一个毛孔都在尽情的呼吸。</p>
<p>这种久违的感觉，</p>
<p>让我陶醉</p>
<p>久久都不愿离开。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>他说，</p>
<p>我是属于有他的地方的，</p>
<p>他走到哪里，</p>
<p>就会把我的思念带到哪里，</p>
<p>然后洒向大地，</p>
<p>让它在有他足迹的地方</p>
<p>生根发芽，</p>
<p>开花结果。</p>
<p>他说</p>
<p>每年春天</p>
<p>会去散播过我的思念的地方</p>
<p>与我的灵魂相聚。</p>
<p>他还说无论翠竹林，</p>
<p>石板路，</p>
<p>还是北方的尘土，</p>
<p>他都会来与我相聚。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>我爱春雨。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]>
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<entry>
<title>心事轻梳弄</title>
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<issued>2009-06-04T18-46-09 CST</issued> 
<created>2009-06-04T18-46-09 CST</created>
<modified>2009-06-04T18-46-09Z</modified>
<id>tag:silence769.blogchina.com,2005://3156360</id>
<author>
<name>silence769</name>
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<dc:subject>Default Cloumn</dc:subject>
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            <div id="blogDetailDiv" style="FONT-SIZE: 16px"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="DISPLAY: inline-block; FILTER: glow(color=#006633,strength=3); COLOR: #ffffff; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em">心事轻梳弄，浅握双手，任发丝缠绕双眸</span><wbr></wbr> </span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr><br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 24px; COLOR: #660000; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">1、好好爱自己</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>爱自己是最重要的事。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>不要让自己整天沉浸在起伏变化的情绪里，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>尽量不去想让自己痛苦的人和事，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>也不要讨厌谁，尽量让自己快乐起来。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>让自己每天都充满了活力，让自己更加美丽，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>不管是外表还是内在，都要时时刻刻美丽动人。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>会爱自己的人才会爱别人，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>&ldquo;爱&rdquo;并非一味付出，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>而是用一种自己和他人都感觉轻松、喜悦、幸福、甜蜜的方式去爱，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>只有这样的爱才是真爱，真的爱自己和爱别人，而不是一种折磨。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>其实真正的爱不只是海誓山盟、悲欢离合、歇斯底里，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>平平淡淡才是最真、最长久的爱。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 24px; COLOR: #660000; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>2、理性、沉着、从容、智慧</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>遇事第一反应就是镇定，先想清楚再做；</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>不想就做，会收益很小，反而弄糟。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>说话要惜字如金。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>言语谈吐是人的第二张脸，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>如果你不想让自己的脸难看得被人指指点点，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>甚至唯恐避之而不及，那就不要口不择言，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>用理性、沉着、从容、智慧去把话说得漂亮</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>就像用化妆品把自己的脸打扮的漂亮一样重要。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 24px; COLOR: #660000; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>3、独立、潇洒</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>独立的人才能活得精彩。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>每个人活在世上都有自己的使命，这就是责任。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>不能把自己的责任强加于任何人，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>因为他也有他的责任，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>即使他因为在乎你而帮你承担你的责任，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>在他实在扛不起时，他会逃跑，去寻找本该属于他的轻松。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>如果你不想落得如此难堪，那就主动挑起自己的担子，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>适时的和他分享和分担，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>但是只是分享分担一部分，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>大部分重量必须自己扛着，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>路途中两个人相互扶持，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>相互怜惜，相互欣赏，相互感激，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>只有这样才能走得更长远。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>活得潇洒的人也更显得优雅。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>当面对即成的事实，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>那就&ldquo;请轻饮这必饮的一杯吧&rdquo;，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>优雅的接受事实是智者的选择，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>挣扎不会改变事实，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>只会让自己受伤更深、精神崩溃。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 24px; COLOR: #660000; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>4、真诚地信任别人</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>不要总是想把别人的路安排得多么妥当，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>总是为别人过分担心，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>总是想帮别人承受些什么；</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>不要用自己的思维去推理别人；</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>不要希望把自己变成了他生活的主角，他生活中的主角永远是自己。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>每个人的路都要由自己去走，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>我不能替别人承担什么，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>过分担心反而扩大的别人的负担，给他更大的压力。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>每个人都有值得我们学习之处，那么从心底里信服他们；</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>每个人都有自己的处事原则，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>只要是他是个比较正常的人就不会轻易做不正常的事情，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>那么他们的大多行为都与我自己一样会很谨慎。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>如果觉得自己可以信任，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>那么他们的能力和人格也是值得信任的。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>因此过多的疑虑实则不存在，也是大可不必的。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>并且，多疑会让自己的人格低俗，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>让自己陷入无尽的痛苦中，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>那么放弃疑虑吧，这是尊重别人，也是珍惜自己。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 24px; COLOR: #660000; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>5、多站在别人的角度思考</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>一个人用95%的时间来关注自己，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>只用5%的时间来关注别人，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>那么就合理的利用这少得可怜的时间吧，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>真心关注他人，欣赏学习他人的优点，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>站在他们的角度去思考问题，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>不要在这段时间里还强加着自己的个人意愿、想法。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>不要做如此自私的人，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>哪怕是爱，也要用别人能接受的方式去爱。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>既然是爱，目的不只是付出，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>更是让被爱对象收获喜悦与&ldquo;自重感&ldquo;，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>那么何必吝啬用他能接受的方式呢！</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 24px; COLOR: #660000; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>6、最好的感情给你身边的人</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>每个人都有情感的需要，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>温柔体贴是最容易被接受的情感，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>如果你和他感情越深，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>那就给他越深层次的温柔与体贴，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>不随时间空间而改变，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>以此来区分他和别人不同，突出他的重要性。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>如果他很重要就不要心怀索取，而要真心付出。</span></span></div>
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<title>源于平凡，饰以美</title>
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<issued>2009-06-04T18-44-32 CST</issued> 
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<modified>2009-06-04T18-44-32Z</modified>
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<dc:subject>情感绿洲</dc:subject>
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            <div id="blogDetailDiv" style="FONT-SIZE: 16px"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>一段情缘，</span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>太平凡，</span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>却饰以誓言，</span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>如珠帘般细密；</span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>以为是美，</span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>却只剩下自己哭泣；</span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>最初的勇气都去了哪里，</span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>往事时事交替，</span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>半夜里，</span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr>新人挤得旧人窒息。</span><wbr></wbr> <br /><!--v:3.2--></div>
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<entry>
<title>与生活讲和</title>
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<issued>2009-06-04T18-42-34 CST</issued> 
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<dc:subject>学习札记</dc:subject>
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<![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">死亡是一种自然，</span><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr></strong> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">人平常总觉得自己高于自然，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">其实只是自然的一部分罢了，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">那么就在自然的怀抱里讲和吧。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">在死亡面前真正懂得了与生活讲和，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">这简直是一个充满哲理的审美现场。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">如果早知道面对死亡可以这么平静，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">我们就能应付人生最困难的事了。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">生活中是不是有比在死神手里抢夺生命更困难的事？</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">我意识中还不曾有这样的事，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">死亡在潜意识里始终是最困难的事。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">如果对生活中的小事都如此难以释怀，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">怎么能真正平静地面对死亡。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">所有比死亡小，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">比死亡容易的小事都有共性&mdash;&mdash;不想面对，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">害怕面对，将之排除在生活之外。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">于是必需面对时只能觉得它是一种挫折，失败。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">其实它也和死亡一样，是一种自然。如此简单明了。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">既然是自然就应该存在于生活中，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">面对它就不应该有任何抵触情绪，只要欣然接受。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">这就是与生活讲和，在中医学谓之&ldquo;养生&rdquo;。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">面对小事，只有与生活讲和了，人才能好好的活着</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">&mdash;&mdash;拥有健康、美丽、快乐；</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">面对死亡，只有与生活讲和，人才能欣然离去</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">&mdash;&mdash;没有遗憾、怨恨、依然如来时单纯。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /><br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">缘分皆天定，聚散无常，却冥冥中自有天意。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">去了、来了、散了、聚了，事实就是真理，勉强不来，也摆脱不了。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">唯一能做的只剩下顺其自然，一切随缘。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">人生就如一出戏，苍天是编者，芸芸众生自导自演，</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'">在如此戏剧化的人生中，只有好好演戏，把自己演得淋漓尽致。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em">&ldquo;自处超然,处人蔼然,处事断然, 无事澄然,得意淡然,失意泰然。&rdquo;</span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16px; COLOR: #336666; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"></span><wbr></wbr>如此而已。</span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr></span><wbr></wbr> <br /><br /></p>
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