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<title>世界上最经典的25句话</title>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">世界上<span class="GramE">最</span>经典的</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%">25</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">句话</span></strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shapetype id="_x0000_t75" path=" m@4@5 l@4@11@9@11@9@5 xe" stroked="f" filled="f" o:spt="75" o:preferrelative="t" coordsize="21600,21600"><v:stroke joinstyle="miter"></v:stroke><v:formulas><v:f eqn="if lineDrawn pixelLineWidth 0 "></v:f><v:f eqn="sum @0 1 0 "></v:f><v:f eqn="sum 0 0 @1 "></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @2 1 2 "></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @3 21600 pixelWidth "></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @3 21600 pixelHeight "></v:f><v:f eqn="sum @0 0 1 "></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @6 1 2 "></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @7 21600 pixelWidth "></v:f><v:f eqn="sum @8 21600 0 "></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @7 21600 pixelHeight "></v:f><v:f eqn="sum @10 21600 0 "></v:f></v:formulas><v:path o:connecttype="rect" gradientshapeok="t" o:extrusionok="f"></v:path><o:lock v:ext="edit" aspectratio="t"></o:lock></v:shapetype><v:shape id="_x0000_i1025" style="WIDTH: 375pt; HEIGHT: 231pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108478584081.gif" src="file3229.files/image001.gif"></v:imagedata></v:shape><br /><br /><strong>1、记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能改变的<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><v:shape id="_x0000_i1026" style="WIDTH: 387pt; HEIGHT: 122.25pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108478609930.jpg" src="file3229.files/image002.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>2、能冲刷一切的除了眼泪，就是时间，以时间来推移感情，时间越长，冲突越淡，仿佛不断稀释的茶。<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1027" style="WIDTH: 332.25pt; HEIGHT: 236.25pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479162558.jpg" src="file3229.files/image003.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>3、怨言是上天<span class="GramE">得至人类</span>最大的供物，也是人类祷告中最真诚的部分<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1028" style="WIDTH: 281.25pt; HEIGHT: 177.75pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479255203.jpg" src="file3229.files/image004.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>4、智慧的代价是矛盾。这是人生对人生观开的玩笑<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1029" style="WIDTH: 300pt; HEIGHT: 209.25pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479277944.jpg" src="file3229.files/image005.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>5、世上的姑娘总以为自己是骄傲的公主(除了少数极丑和少数极聪明的姑娘例外)<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1030" style="WIDTH: 291.75pt; HEIGHT: 237pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479310743.jpg" src="file3229.files/image006.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>6、 如果敌人让你生气，那说明你还没有胜他的把握<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1031" style="WIDTH: 300pt; HEIGHT: 237.75pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479422844.jpg" src="file3229.files/image007.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>　7、如果朋友让你生气，那说明你仍然在意他的友情<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1032" style="WIDTH: 375pt; HEIGHT: 297pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479679579.jpg" src="file3229.files/image008.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>　8、 令<span class="GramE">狐冲说</span>&ldquo;有些事情本身我们无法控制，只好控制自己。&rdquo;<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1033" style="WIDTH: 187.5pt; HEIGHT: 180.75pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479440794.jpg" src="file3229.files/image009.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>9、我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的，那些是错的，而当我终于老死的时候我才知道这些。所以我现在所能做的就是尽力做好每一件事，然后等待着老死<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1034" style="WIDTH: 366.75pt; HEIGHT: 258.75pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479484916.jpg" src="file3229.files/image010.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>10、也许有些人很可恶，有些人很卑鄙。而当我设身为他想象的时候，我才知道：他比我还可怜。所以请原谅所有你见过的人，好人或者坏人<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1035" style="WIDTH: 388.5pt; HEIGHT: 205.5pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479524805.jpg" src="file3229.files/image011.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>11、<span class="GramE">鱼对水</span>说你看不到我的眼泪，因为我在水里.水说我能感觉到你的眼泪，因为你在我心里。<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1036" style="WIDTH: 364.5pt; HEIGHT: 291pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479710110.jpg" src="file3229.files/image012.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>12、快乐要有悲伤作陪，雨<span class="GramE">过应该</span>就有天晴。如果雨后还是雨，如果忧伤之后还是忧伤.请让我们从容面对这离别之后的离别。微笑地去寻找一个不可能出现的你！<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1037" style="WIDTH: 353.25pt; HEIGHT: 266.25pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479740935.jpg" src="file3229.files/image013.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>13、死亡教会人一切，如同考试之后公布的结果&mdash;&mdash;虽然恍然大悟，但为时晚矣~！<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1038" style="WIDTH: 375pt; HEIGHT: 237.75pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479789370.jpg" src="file3229.files/image014.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>14、你出生的时候，你哭着，周围的人笑着；你逝去的时候，你笑着，而周围的人在哭！一切都是轮回!!!! 我们都在轮回中!!!!<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1039" style="WIDTH: 375pt; HEIGHT: 237.75pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479825232.jpg" src="file3229.files/image014.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>15、男人在结婚<span class="GramE">前觉得</span>适合自己的女人很少，结婚后觉得适合自己的女人很多<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1040" style="WIDTH: 431.25pt; HEIGHT: 257.25pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479859089.jpg" src="file3229.files/image015.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>16、于千万人之中，遇见你所遇见的人；于千万年之中，时间的无涯荒野里，没有早一步，也没有晚一步，刚巧赶上了。<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1041" style="WIDTH: 294pt; HEIGHT: 215.25pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479993199.jpg" src="file3229.files/image016.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>17、每个人都有潜在的能量，只是很容易:被习惯所掩盖，被时间所迷离,被惰性所消磨<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1042" style="WIDTH: 412.5pt; HEIGHT: 213.75pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108479889605.jpg" src="file3229.files/image017.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>18、人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，<span class="GramE">该爱的</span>时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1043" style="WIDTH: 375pt; HEIGHT: 267pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108480028469.jpg" src="file3229.files/image018.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>19、和平年代<span class="GramE">》</span>里的话：当幻想和现实面对时，总是很痛苦的。要么你被痛苦击倒，要么你把痛苦踩在脚下<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1044" style="WIDTH: 405.75pt; HEIGHT: 303.75pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108480065069.jpg" src="file3229.files/image019.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>　20、真正的爱情是不讲究热闹不讲究排场不讲究繁华更不<span class="GramE">讲究嚎头的</span><o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1045" style="WIDTH: 450pt; HEIGHT: 301.5pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108480976486.jpg" src="file3229.files/image020.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>21、生命中，不断地有人离开或进入。于是，看见的，看不见的；记住的，遗忘了。生命中，不断地有得到和失落。于是，看不见的，看见了；遗忘的，记住了。然而，看不见的，是不是就等于不存在？记住的，是不是永远不会消失？<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1046" style="WIDTH: 184.5pt; HEIGHT: 202.5pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108480104263.jpg" src="file3229.files/image021.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>22、我们确实活得艰难，一要承受种种外部的压力，更要面对自己内心的困惑。在苦苦挣扎中，如果有人向你投以理解的目光，你会感到一种生命的暖意，或许仅有短暂的一瞥，就足以使我感奋不已<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1047" style="WIDTH: 417pt; HEIGHT: 285pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108480153392.jpg" src="file3229.files/image022.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>23、我不去想是否能够成功,既然选择了远方,便只顾风雨兼程; 我不去想,身后会不会袭来寒风冷雨,既然目标是地平线,留给世界的只能是背影<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1048" style="WIDTH: 374.25pt; HEIGHT: 231.75pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108481039015.jpg" src="file3229.files/image023.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>24、后悔是一种耗费精神的情绪.后悔是<span class="GramE">比损失</span>更大的损失,比错误更大的错误.所以不要后悔<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><v:shape id="_x0000_i1049" style="WIDTH: 375pt; HEIGHT: 249pt" coordsize="21600,21600" alt="" type="#_x0000_t75"><v:imagedata o:href="http://myarticle.enet.com.cn/images/200502/1108481065879.jpg" src="file3229.files/image024.jpg"></v:imagedata></v:shape><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #393b36; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /><br /><strong>25、日出东海落西山，<span class="GramE">愁也一天</span>，喜也一天；遇事不钻牛角尖，人也舒坦，心也舒坦<o:p></o:p></strong></span></p>
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<entry>
<title>让你无法成功</title>
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<issued>2008-02-24T11-29-32 CST</issued> 
<created>2008-02-24T11-29-32 CST</created>
<modified>2008-09-07T00-17-24Z</modified>
<id>tag:vip108.blogchina.com,2005://1452878</id>
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<name>vip108</name>
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<dc:subject>分享</dc:subject>
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21条原因让你无法成功<br /><br />1、缺乏明确的人生目标。凡是没有明确的人生目标的人，便没有成功的希望。<br />2、缺乏足够的教育。这个缺点克服起来十分容易。经验证明，自学的人往往是学习得最好的人，光有一张大学文凭是不够的。<br />3、缺乏自律。纪律来自于自我控制，在你要控制别人之前，一定要先控制住自己。<br />4、健康不佳。中国有句古话叫&ldquo;朽木不可雕也&rdquo;，也有一说其原意指身体差的人是难以造就的。<br />5、拖沓。这是最常见的一种失败原因。为什么老是失败，是因为我们总是等待！要知道时机就在你站立的地方。无须再等！<br />6、缺乏百折不挠的精神。这是任何东西都无法取代的。很多人做事都是虎头蛇尾，看到失败的迹象便立即退却。<br />7、消极的个性。消极的个性不会获得别人的合作。<br />8、对性冲动缺乏控制。促使人们采取行动的所有冲动中，以性冲动为最强。因此选错结婚的对象，是失败者中常见的原因。婚姻失败使人充满悲哀和不愉快，会毁掉一个人的所有抱负。<br />9、不能控制不良欲望。赌徒的欲望驱使着数以百万计的人们走向失败。<br />10、缺乏迅速的决断力。成功的人都能迅速果断地下定决心，并根据情况的变化而改变他的决定。失败的人通常决定缓慢，并且常常改变主意。犹豫不决和拖沓是孪生兄弟，只要看见一个就会找到另一个。<br />11、具有对贫穷、批评、生病、失去爱、年老、死亡的恐惧中的一种或几种。<br />12、过分小心谨慎。不愿冒风险的人，通常只能选择别人剩下来的东西。过分谨慎与不够谨慎同样不足取，人生充满了不可预料的机遇。<br />13、选错了事业伙伴。商业失败的原因以这点为多见。一个人在寻找事业伙伴时应当极其小心，他们应当是智慧型与诚实型。<br />14、选错职业。不喜欢所从事的职业，是不会成功的。<br />15、未能专心致志。样样会一点的人，样样都不会！将你的全部努力集中在一个明确的目标上。<br />16、花钱没有节制。挥金如土的人不可能成功，因为他无法过节俭的生活。<br />17、缺乏热情。缺乏热情的人是不会有人信任的，要知道人的热情具有感染力，热情的人往往会受到大家的欢迎。<br />18、偏执。不能容纳许多问题的人，很少能取得成就。偏执是一个人不再求知、最具破坏性的个性。<br />19、缺乏合作能力。不能与别人合作，会丧失地位和机遇。<br />20、蓄意欺骗。诚实是没有什么东西可以取代的。一个人由于处在某种不利的环境中一时撒了谎，是可以谅解的。蓄意欺骗的人丧失的是信誉直至自由，不会有成功的希望。<br />21、以猜测代替思考。大多数人不很注意问题的实质，宁愿凭着猜测采取行动，这也是很危险的。</div>]]>
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<entry>
<title>成功法则之三、多走些路</title>
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<issued>2007-12-08T14-41-29 CST</issued> 
<created>2007-12-08T14-41-29 CST</created>
<modified>2008-09-07T03-23-27Z</modified>
<id>tag:vip108.blogchina.com,2005://1245969</id>
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<name>vip108</name>
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<dc:subject>分享</dc:subject>
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<![CDATA[<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">成功法则之三、多走些路</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">你曾经诚恳地努力过</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">但仍然失败了吗？也许你的失败，是因为你获得成功还需要更多的东西。欧几里德的原理：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&ldquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">整体的东西等于所有部分的总和，而大于任何一部分。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&rdquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">这个原理可用来说明我们的问题。重要的是：你该把所有必要的部分加到整体上去。当你用积极的心态寻找成功时，你就会不断地努力。你会不断地寻求，以寻求更多的东西。有些人一遇到挫折，就停止寻找更多的东西，终于失望。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">你碰到了一个难题？那很好！没什么！因为你解决了一个个的难题，就是取得了一个个的胜利，你就增长了一些智慧。有时候，多走些路是绝对必要的。因此，你每碰到一个难题，就要用积极的心态去抓住它，解决它，从而使你成为更善良、更大度、更有办法、更成功的人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">广泛地说来，你将遇到三种问题：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;A</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">、个人问题</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">情绪问题、经济问题、心理问题、道德问题、健康问题。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;B</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">、家庭问题。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;C</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">、事业问题或职业问题。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">当你面对着需要解决的难题时，不管这个难题如何错综复杂：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）要求圣哲给以引导，帮助找到正确的解决方法。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）从事思考，以图解决难题。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）讲述与分析这个难题，并给它下个定义。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）热情地对你自己说：这很好，太好啦！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">5</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）向你自己提出几个特殊的问题，例如：那个东西有什么益处？什么人我们看不见？等等</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">6</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）不断寻找这些问题的答案，直至找到了至少三种以上能起到作用的答案。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">7</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）绝不能因解决问题的路径迂回曲折而畏惧不前甚至放弃，不！不能那样。任何时候都要告诉自己要多忍耐些，要多走些路。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song"> </font></span>]]>
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<title>成功法则之二、确定的目的</title>
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<issued>2007-12-08T14-38-26 CST</issued> 
<created>2007-12-08T14-38-26 CST</created>
<modified>2008-09-07T00-17-24Z</modified>
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<name>vip108</name>
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<dc:subject>分享</dc:subject>
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<![CDATA[<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">成功法则之二、确定的目的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">确定的目的同积极的心态相结合是所有可观的成就的起点。记住！你的世界是要改变的，你有能力选择你的目标。当你以积极的心态确定你的目的时，你会自然而然地倾向于应用下列七条成功的原则：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">一、个人的首创精神</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">二、自制能力</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">三、创造性的见识</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">四</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">、正确的思考</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">五、集中注意力</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">六、预算时间和金钱</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">七、热情</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">要做就做最好的，已经够好了请努力去做得更好！冠军是我们不懈的追求。事业成功的目的要靠后天的艰苦努力达到，但所有的人已一具有这先天的条件，因为，我们一生下来就是冠军了。想想吧：为了生下你，许多战斗已发生了，这些战斗又必须以成功告终。数以亿计的精细胞参加了巨大的战斗，然而其中只有一个赢得了胜利</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">就是构成了你的那一个！这是为了达到一个目标而进行的大规模的赛跑：这个为精虫所争夺的目标比针尖还要小，而每个精虫也是要被放大到几千倍才能为肉眼所见。然而你的生命的最初决定性的战斗就是在这么微小的场合上进行的。精虫中的染色体所包含的全部物质与倾向是由你的父亲和他的祖先提供的，卵核中的染色体则来自你母亲那方。你的母亲和父亲本身代表二十多亿年前为生存而战斗的胜利的极点。于是一个特殊的精虫</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">最好最健康的精虫便以最快的速度与一个等待着的卵结合起来形成微小的活细胞。成功了，那就是你！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">可见，人一生下来就是成功者，就是冠军。请记住：我们要像细胞一样的为生存而顽强斗争。既不屈服自然，也不屈服自身。那么，我们的目的就是：冠军！　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">要牢记以下四件重要的事项：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）写下你的目标。当你书写时，你的思维活动会自然地使目标在你的记忆中产生一种不可磨灭的印象。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）给你自己确定时限，安排达到目标的时间。这一点的重要性在于激励你自己不断地向目标迈进。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）把你的目标订得高一些。须知达到目标的难易程度与你付出的努力之间有着直接的关系。一般说来，你把你的主要目标订得愈高，你为达到这个目标的努力也就要愈集中。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; 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<title>获得自信的五个步骤</title>
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<issued>2007-12-08T14-36-13 CST</issued> 
<created>2007-12-08T14-36-13 CST</created>
<modified>2008-09-07T00-17-24Z</modified>
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<title>成功法则之一、积极的心态</title>
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<issued>2007-12-08T14-30-42 CST</issued> 
<created>2007-12-08T14-30-42 CST</created>
<modified>2008-09-07T03-23-27Z</modified>
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<![CDATA[<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">成功法则之一、</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">积极的心态</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;、</font></span></p>
<p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">积极向上的心态是成功者最基本的要素。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">记住！你认识到你自己的积极心态的那一天，也就是你遇到最重要的人的那一天；而这个世界上最重要的人就是你！你的这种思想、这种精神、这种心理就是你的法宝，你的力量。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">积极的心态必须是正确的心态。正确的心态总是具有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&ldquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">正性</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&rdquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">的特点，例如：忠诚、仁爱、正直、希望、乐观、勇敢、创造、慷慨、容忍、机智、亲切和高度的通情达理。具有积极心态的人，总是怀着较高的目标，并不断奋斗，以达到自己的目标。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">消极的心态则具有与积极的心态相反的特点。如果说，积极是人类最大的法宝；那么，消极就是人类致命的弱点。如果不能克服这一致命的弱点，你将失去希望之所在，并失去希望之所由，悲伤、寂寞、烦躁、颓废、痛苦，世界将因此毁灭。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">不！我们不要这样。我们虽有很多弱点，但我们不是弱者。积极心态的树立，将使我们很快地摆脱消极心理的阴影，成为一个快乐的强者！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">变成世界上最重要的人，那个人就是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&ldquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&rdquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">。你的成功、健康、幸福与财富依靠你如何应用你的看不见的法宝。你将怎样应用它呢？这由你自己选择。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">你的心理就是你的不可见而恒定的法宝。它的一面装饰着</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&ldquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">积极的心态</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&rdquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">五个字，另一面装饰着</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&ldquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">消极的心态</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&rdquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">五个字</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">积极的心态具有吸引真善美的力量，而消极的心态则完全排斥它们。正是消极的心态剥夺了一切使你的生活有价值的东西。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">不要由于没有成功就责备这个世界的不够完美与现成，这是可笑与可鄙的。你要像所有成功者那样发展自己火热的谋求成功的愿望。怎样发展？把你的心放在所想要的东西上，使你的心远离你所不想要的东西。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">不要拒绝所有的励志书籍和他人的帮助和指引，更不要拒绝自己内心的冲动。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">对于那些具有积极心态的人来说，每一种逆境都含有等量的或更大利益的种子。有时，那些似乎是逆境的东西，其实是上升的好机会。你愿意花费时间从事思考以便决定你怎样才能把逆境化为等量或更大的利益吗？请这样回答说：我当然愿意！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">请接受这样一件无价的礼物</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">欢乐的劳动；寻求人生的最大价值；热爱人们，为人们服务。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">决不能低估消极心态的排斥力量，如不重视你未必是它的对手。它能阻止人生的幸运，不让你受益。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">你能由失望而得到好处吗？是的，失望已被我积极的心态转化为励志的失望了。某些失望正是新希望的开头呢！请对你的朋友说：嘿，我失望了，但我终于想通了！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">继续工作！重新端正自己对生活、工作与学习的态度，并且把今天的挫折转化为明天的动力。是的，我很不满意！为此，我要</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">......</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">不不，不是颓唐，而是努力！请相信，每当这时，积极的心态可以拯救你的困惑或苦难，并把那些好象不可能的事转化为现实。你要对自己热情（可以略带忧郁地）、快乐而肯定地说：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&ldquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">我没有失败，让我继续工作！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&rdquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">你有这一勇气吗？只有勇敢者才可能是强者。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">不要让自己老是觉得委屈，顾影自怜。成功是由那些具有积极心态的人所取得的，并由那些以积极的心态努力不懈的人所保持的。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song"> </font></span></p>
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<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">成功法则之二、</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">确定的目的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span></p>
<p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">确定的目的同积极的心态相结合是所有可观的成就的起点。记住！你的世界是要改变的，你有能力选择你的目标。当你以积极的心态确定你的目的时，你会自然而然地倾向于应用下列七条成功的原则：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">一、个人的首创精神</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">二、自制能力</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">三、创造性的见识</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">四</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">、正确的思考</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">五、集中注意力</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">六、预算时间和金钱</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">七、热情</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">要做就做最好的，已经够好了请努力去做得更好！冠军是我们不懈的追求。事业成功的目的要靠后天的艰苦努力达到，但所有的人已一具有这先天的条件，因为，我们一生下来就是冠军了。想想吧：为了生下你，许多战斗已发生了，这些战斗又必须以成功告终。数以亿计的精细胞参加了巨大的战斗，然而其中只有一个赢得了胜利</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">就是构成了你的那一个！这是为了达到一个目标而进行的大规模的赛跑：这个为精虫所争夺的目标比针尖还要小，而每个精虫也是要被放大到几千倍才能为肉眼所见。然而你的生命的最初决定性的战斗就是在这么微小的场合上进行的。精虫中的染色体所包含的全部物质与倾向是由你的父亲和他的祖先提供的，卵核中的染色体则来自你母亲那方。你的母亲和父亲本身代表二十多亿年前为生存而战斗的胜利的极点。于是一个特殊的精虫</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">最好最健康的精虫便以最快的速度与一个等待着的卵结合起来形成微小的活细胞。成功了，那就是你！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">可见，人一生下来就是成功者，就是冠军。请记住：我们要像细胞一样的为生存而顽强斗争。既不屈服自然，也不屈服自身。那么，我们的目的就是：冠军！　</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">要牢记以下四件重要的事项：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）写下你的目标。当你书写时，你的思维活动会自然地使目标在你的记忆中产生一种不可磨灭的印象。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）给你自己确定时限，安排达到目标的时间。这一点的重要性在于激励你自己不断地向目标迈进。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）把你的目标订得高一些。须知达到目标的难易程度与你付出的努力之间有着直接的关系。一般说来，你把你的主要目标订得愈高，你为达到这个目标的努力也就要愈集中。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）胸怀壮志。树立人生更高的目标，不断地向自己提出更高的要求。因为很明显的事实是，更高的目标将激励人们奋起战斗。</span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">成功法则之三、</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">多走些路</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span></span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">你曾经诚恳地努力过</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">但仍然失败了吗？也许你的失败，是因为你获得成功还需要更多的东西。欧几里德的原理：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&ldquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">整体的东西等于所有部分的总和，而大于任何一部分。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&rdquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">这个原理可用来说明我们的问题。重要的是：你该把所有必要的部分加到整体上去。当你用积极的心态寻找成功时，你就会不断地努力。你会不断地寻求，以寻求更多的东西。有些人一遇到挫折，就停止寻找更多的东西，终于失望。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">你碰到了一个难题？那很好！没什么！因为你解决了一个个的难题，就是取得了一个个的胜利，你就增长了一些智慧。有时候，多走些路是绝对必要的。因此，你每碰到一个难题，就要用积极的心态去抓住它，解决它，从而使你成为更善良、更大度、更有办法、更成功的人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">广泛地说来，你将遇到三种问题：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;A</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">、个人问题</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&mdash;&mdash;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">情绪问题、经济问题、心理问题、道德问题、健康问题。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;B</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">、家庭问题。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;C</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">、事业问题或职业问题。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">当你面对着需要解决的难题时，不管这个难题如何错综复杂：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）要求圣哲给以引导，帮助找到正确的解决方法。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）从事思考，以图解决难题。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）讲述与分析这个难题，并给它下个定义。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）热情地对你自己说：这很好，太好啦！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">5</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）向你自己提出几个特殊的问题，例如：那个东西有什么益处？什么人我们看不见？等等</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">6</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）不断寻找这些问题的答案，直至找到了至少三种以上能起到作用的答案。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">7</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）绝不能因解决问题的路径迂回曲折而畏惧不前甚至放弃，不！不能那样。任何时候都要告诉自己要多忍耐些，要多走些路。</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;</font></span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">成功法则之四、正确的思考</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;</font></span></span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">你经常在思考着什么？是的，思考什么呢？你的思想清晰吗？坦实吗？正确吗？一只昆虫可能被蛛网捉住。昆虫一旦陷入困境，它就不能解放自己。然而，每个人都可以绝对地、天生地控制一样东西，这东西就是心态。我们能够避免心理上结蛛网，也能够清除这种蛛网。当我们一旦陷入网中时，我们仍然能从中解脱，获得自由。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">我们的思想蛛网之一便是：认定我们的行动只是根据推理，而实际上每种意识的行动都不过是我们在做我们想要的事。请注意！我们不能只凭推理就采取行动。这对投资来说是尤其危险的。要在行动前与行动中不断提示自己，辨识事情进行的性质与状态。行动有多大胆，你的反思也要有多大胆。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">一经反思，你便可以看到以下的这一些在你心中积存与新生的不洁的蛛网：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）消极的感情、情绪、激情、习惯、信条和偏见。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）只看到别人缺点。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）由于语义的误解所造成的争论和失败。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）由于虚假的前提而作出的虚假结论。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">5</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）把概括一切的限制性的词或句子作为基本或重要的前提。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">6</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&ldquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">需要</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&rdquo;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">迫使人作出不诚实的想法。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">7</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">）不清洁的思想和习惯。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><font face="宋体, MS Song">8</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso